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[Anonymous]

Voted "rough," but it is a little more complicated than that. My girlfriend (and our children) is the most important person in my universe. I love her with all my heart, and yet our sex tends to be very raw and animal. Not always - sometimes it can be romantic - and not in a BDSM way with chains and all of that.

Rather our sex has always been very raw. Like we are two animals breeding in a field. I need to be the dominant male, mounting her and planting my sperm inside her to make a baby. She has been very complementary to that. Submissive, making her body there for my use and accepting my sperm to carry my offspring.

It all sounds very base and not terribly inspiring. Yet that is the funny part. It is weirdly the most intimate sharing. When my girlfriend and I have sex, it is all that we are the most elemental level.

We are seeing each other naked and at our most base. My girlfriend is seeing me as all raw animal instinct. I am nothing but that and am the most exposed. When I put my sperm inside her, I am giving her the most essential thing I have to give and she is accepting me without limit or qualification in both a literal and the most instinctive way.

From the woman's side, this is how a gal on this site put it: "The carnal urge to procreate & produce healthy offspring is built into our genetic wiring. I do get turned on by the thought of my husband taking control of my body through impregnation so easily, with just one moment of passion & his pleasure of the satisfying release of his seed into me.

"Knowing he has the power to make my body swell in certain areas due to pregnancy in order to accommodate his brood growing inside of me each day, closer & closer to full term is pretty hot. It might be uncomfortable & burdensome for me to bear his children. Even if it is a cumbersome, heavy laden, wifely fecund duty to conceive & produce the children he wishes to sire, that is the truest expression & sacrifice for love, to create something that is him & I together, and I know it is important to him to father children.

"Also it displays the greatest trust, that I allow him to put me in the vulnerable, risky position of altering my life by being knocked up, laboring & caring for our babies, but trusting he will be by my side the whole time committed to respecting, honoring, and loving me deeply, as well as providing & taking care of me & the babies I birth for him, as a result of his will to inseminate and spread his genes."

My girlfriend has told me similar things. It all, as I said, is very raw and animalistic and you would not think very intimate.

Yet that is the funny part, in that act, a man and a woman are sharing and giving all that they are. I've told my girlfriend it is like the whole universe has shrunk down to just us - and nothing else matters. We are seeing each other as all that we are and there is nothing else, nothing artificial.

Not, to be sure, our highest nature, but the most basic sharing because there is nothing at work but our animal instincts. It is pure honesty and pure sharing and in that weird way sex becomes more than it seems on the surface.

My girlfriend likes to joke that I am controlled by my penis. Given the human male's evolutionary instinct to breed females and reproduce, there is some truth to that. Yet she accepts me - that is called love.

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