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Do you really think ~80% of guys are invisible to girls?

80% of guys
  • Earn less than $80,000 a year
  • Are shorter than 6'
  • Have a penis shorter than 6.5 inches
  • Are clinically overweight
  • Have no charm
  • Dont have a professional career
  • Are porn/drug/game addicts
  • Have not a single close friend
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A hooker charges anywhere from $100-$500 for sex. Right? So let's say you have sex every day with your girlfriend. In her mind you're incurring, potentially, thousands of dollars of debt every week with her.
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So that's just one reason why $80k a year would honestly get you laughed at
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  • It's funny that I've never thought of half of those things and yet, I can definitely tell you that I tend to 'overlook' them instead of truly notice them when I am aware of a few of those. For instance, since men don't tend to wear their dick size on their foreheads so we know what we're getting (rude of you, by the way), that one's a gamble. I'll tell you that in my experience, I think that I like your goldilocks zone number of 6.5 being the size that isn't going to immediately make me disappointed.
    I don't ask about their bank account when I'm getting involved but I prefer if they're at least working towards a professional career. But I'd be satisfied with a solid work ethic. I find that that's even harder to come by these days.
    Yes, a drug addict is definitely a hard pass. Why the hell would you look at someone (male or female) and be like, 'hmm... he's spending all his money on drugs, doesn't have a job, and is high all the time... fuck yea, sign me up for a lifelong relationship with that man!' I'll stick with immediate pass.
    I think addiction is a tricky question in general, though. I'm cool if you wanna watch porn and I'll even watch it with you if we can agree on the subject matter. Same with gaming. By all means, play your games and I'll read a book with my head in your lap. But addiction is a different story and yes, I'd say it's one I'd pass on without much thought.
    Height... I mean, I claim that I'm attracted to taller men but in practice, I don't use that as a yes or no factor when determining if they'll be a good partner.
    No charm... I don't care. Are you an adorable dork? Shy? Really intelligent? Cool. Personality is important but 'charm' doesn't matter to me.
    Now, the last two things are seriously concerning to me. Clinically overweight and not a single close friend. Although weight shouldn't matter, that's also a point of your health. This is going to sound incredibly selfish but I work a lot, I maintain my weight and figure, and though I'm relatively young, I don't have any medical ailments. I've had a partner who is clinically overweight, makes no effort to do anything about it, and bitched daily about every ache and pain he had, which were a fucking lot. No, they're not all due to weight but weight has a heavy bearing on a whole lot of health issues. So, would I willingly get into a relationship with someone overweight again, probably also going to be a hard pass. It's also, to me, NOT physically appealing.
    Now, no close friend... is it because you're a psychopath? Have an inappropriate relationship with your mother? Or is it because you're a military brat who was never in a single place long enough to forge that bond.
    So... obviously I wrote you a story because I'm seriously procrastinating work that I should be doing and a long answer allowed me to take a break. Sorrynotsorry. But I think you're only halfway on to something. These men aren't invisible since these stats don't float over their heads while walking down the street. But they can be a turn off later once they're revealed. Just as likewise stats for women can cause the same reaction in men.

    • Whyd you write all that. Human females evolved to actually find the vast majority (all except for their one, actually) physically disgusting. Thats just a fact

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  • No, I watched the percentage and during 18 - 25 74 % pf men have never been in a relationship and 56 % of women.
    Though it lower greatly for men between 25 and 34 then only 26 % of them have never been in a relationship. (and 14 % of women).

    So I would say you're not wrong but only if we consider this for younger men up until 24 years old, it become false for the "older" one.
    I guess when getting older and wanting to settle down women become less "picky"

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  • Obviously. No sh*t. Not a single thing mentioned there is a good thing or positive in any way. To say women want ideal men doesn't also negate the fact that many women settle once hitting their mid 30s or later.

    No one wants a loser and literally all of those things are loser traits. Let's compare me to them!

    - Earn less than $80,000 a year ✔
    - Shorter than 6'/183 cm ✔
    - Has a penis [smaller than 7 inches] ✔
    (I'm 6.5"; seven is the minimum required for men to pass this category as 6.5" isn't a positive or good pens size.)
    - Are clinically overweight ✔
    - Don't have a single close friend ✔
    - Have no charm or game ❌
    - Don't have a professional career ❌
    - Are porn/drug/game addicts ❌
    - Are not extremely confident ❌
    - Are not well-adjusted and happy ❌

    You forgot ego and arrogance plays a big part with women. Hell, it's THE most attractive thing to them. Being a cocky egotistical MF'er. A guy having a well put-together life can also matter a lot, too. A guy who is happy, well-adjusted, and just living his best life.

    So I brought your criteria up to ten categories. Income, height, sex appeal, physique, social status, game, career, lifestyle, confidence, and overall happiness. With a woman, or any school test, you need at least 7 out of 10 to "pass." That would be the median for "minimum attractiveness" towards women.

    I like your question! Let's take this one step further and see just how many men can pass the Attractive Woman Test.

    ... I made this question here, then came back to hit "SEND IT!" on here.

    Single Men: How many of these Social Market Value traits do you possess? Would you be considered dateable enough for modern women?

  • Why would every girl be interested in 80% of the guys. Why a 100% of girls should be attractive to a 100% of guys?

    In reality we are attracted to a 20-40% of the opposite sex, and a 20-40% is attracted to us. Now, we will never meet that full percentage if we don't socialize. Without socializing we may only meet a 1-10%.

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  • I personally do not care how much a man earns as long as he has a job. Height is also not a deal breaker along with penis size.

    However, weight is potentially an issue, dad bod is okay, obese not so much. Any man that is addicted to porn/drugs/gaming is a massive no. For a man not to have a single close friend is also a bit concerning.

  • no need to put men down like that my dude

    • Those are just facts

    • I could list the same facts about most girls and you know what most guys would say. "doesn't matter."

    • cool, where did you pull those facts from?

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  • 80% of guys aren't invisible to me. I see them all. I do notice the nerdy ones more cause that's more my type but I see all the other guys too

    • You do not count, though. OP is only talking about heterosexual women, not LGBT women like yourself.

    • @MCheetah why not towards bi girls too?

    • Chit chat elsewhere

  • Oh man, I meet at least half you criteria. Thank god I'm engaged and not single

    • That means you're in the top 10%

  • How many of the items on the list do you need to have just to make it so you are just a little hard to see?

    • Hm. two?

    • I'll take it.

  • if you go be online dating profiles most females looking to find a male relationship partner. typically want a guy who's above average in pretty much everyway *looks, income, fitness, height, dick size, etc.* however most of those guys who fit their list tend to have dozens of girls chasing them. so why would they settle for just one unless they have strong religions or moral values.

    so to answer your questions yes to some degree if you go by online dating polls.

  • Go walk around Walmart tomorrow and look at all the different couples walking around

  • Most men after 30 are married so most men are not invisible to at least one woman.

  • Yeah. They are the ones who must always make the first move in that case. The other 20%, women will come to us

  • Yeah just look at @chefpapichulo he is all the above and gets no bitches.

    It's sad

  • Lmao these females are coping so hard. Yes most men are invisible to females, just go Mgtow. One of the best choices I ever made

  • Only in terms of sexual attractiveness. Maybe more like 90%

  • Only the ones with less than 7 inches.

  • The ones without game are.

  • Next time you go out somewhere, try walking around with your eyes open.

    • most guys of them are used for money, free food and free nights out? No? Thats the feel

    • @Anonymous Nice deflection of the question. Also, women settle for men they don't find attractive or respectable all the time. It's called a rebound. Or a "for now guy." I'm sorry, but until you've looked at hundreds of women's dating profiles on various apps, you can't assume women are as angelic and low maintenance as you imply, especially if you're not someone who's tried to hit on or flirt with women hundreds of times before and got rejected by them.

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