Guys, If she won't wet during sex would you think she didn't enjoy it?

[Ginger1907]

[MrOracle]

Context would be important here - the "why" is important and relevant.

In my 35-ish years of being sexually active, I've never had any problem getting girls wet - in fact, they're usually wet anytime they're around me, because I keep them mentally and emotionally involved. But there are going to be exceptions once in a while.

For example, I can recall a handful of times I've shown up unexpectedly to a girl's place, and she more-or-less pulled me into the bedroom or whatever the second she saw me, and some of those times, she wasn't wet (yet!), and yet she still wanted to get things underway immediately. Granted, she was wet 20 seconds later, but there were those few times when she was dry in the beginning, because she'd been focused on other things before I arrived. You're always going to have that if you're with a girl for long enough.

And another exception - a girl I was with had to go on some meds for a health issue, and one of the side effects was vaginal dryness - and, yeah, they weren't kidding. This was a girl who was normally like Niagara Falls, but by Day 2 of taking these meds, she was bone dry, and we literally had to stop and go to the store for some lube. It was obviously not an arousal problem, but a side effect of her meds. And things went back to normal after she was finished taking them.

There could be other reasons, and there are bound to be a few women who, for whatever biological reason, always struggle with this, just as there are a few women who get really super wet. Standard distribution of variables happen on a bell curve, and while most people are near the middle of the curve, there will always be a few on the outside edge of the curve who are at one extreme or the other. You have to expect that to be the case sometimes, and you just need to learn to deal with it the best way you can. At least today there is lube readily available, and it's easy enough to carry, so it's far from the worst situation you could find yourself in.

[Anonymous]

Not at all. But, of course sex is NOT enjoyable if not well lubricated - either naturally or artificial.
I am kind of surprised a woman would ask this question. There are men who can't get erect called erectile dysfunction (ED) but they are attracted to their mate/wife/partner. So they can possibly take Viagra.
Women have options as well. Even after plenty of foreplay and tender attention a woman can still be "dry". I would recommend talk to a gynecologist and see what he recommends if this is an issue for you.
And a finger or a penis can still hurt if that is dry even if the woman is wet.
So no I would not conclude that at all.

[HighlyVolatile]

If she isn't wet enough, I don't do. Err on the safe side. We can cuddle or something, watch movies, talk a lot. I don't want to hurt the girl. We can try later on. I'm not in a hurry. I just want her to stay with me.

[Nawlins34]

I would think so. I would think she's not attractive to me enough and i'm just not doing it for her.

I'm going on my own experience though because in my sexual history, I've never had sex with a woman who didn't get wet for me. So yeah, I'd think she's not in to me.

In reality, I'd have asked about this WELL before we had sex and she knows herself well to know she doesn't get wet like that, I'd more than likely drop pursuit because that's my preference.

[Red_Arrow]

Lots of women need lube during sex because their own natural lube is minimal, especially when they get to my age. But they still enjoy it!

[summiter]

Being wet makes it feel better. But it does not always happen. Use some lube each time it is wonderful

[slatyb]

That's why they make lube. I would trust her to tell me what she likes.

[AviatorTom]

Not necessarily. Women have varying degrees of wetness, from very dry to totally soaked, when sexually stimulated. Rather than her amount of wetness, I'd pay attention to other things (is she moaning?, does she tell me she likes it?, is her body trembling? is she pleasuring me? etc) to determine if she enjoys it.

[goaded]

Yes. But I wouldn't start until the lady was ready.

[exitseven]

I would maybe think that.

[Mate100]

Yeah

[Andres77]

If you go down on her first and keep going until she pushes you off... she'll be wet enough.