Yesterday I thought this dream was dirty and disturbing and now it's turning me on I keep thinking and remembering this dream again and again. why?

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This might sound like i am trolling but trust me I am not. I have a thing for threesome. I fantasize about threesome whenever i masturbate.
So last night i had i dream that me and my boyfriend went on a vacation and in hotel room he invited two black men with huge dick and they fucked me hard. But what shocked me is while one of them was having me from behind and i was sucking other one my boyfriend got on his knees and proposed me with a ring. Yeah he proposed me while i had a cock in my pussy and mouth and getting fucked. And i said yes just by nodding with tears in my eyes and overwhelmed with happiness. Then he put that ring on my finger and the guy took out his cock from my mouth. Me and my boyfriend kissed passionately and said each other i love you. that guy again made me suck him and those guys congratulate me in really dirty words and kept fucking. And they kept talking how especial and lucky i am that my boyfriend loves me this much. When i woke up i was dripping wet.
Now i never thought of making my boyfriend cuckold. I love him very much and can't ever think of cheating on him. He is literally the man of my dream.
After getting that dream i was feeling so bad and disgusting but the more i think about it it's making me horny and wet it's just getting hotter and hotter in my head.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Hi Disha10,
I tend to think that we have a fairly dark area in our sexuality that probably comes from Homo Erectus on the African Savannah. Sex wasn't always white wedding dresses and, at some point back, was more like beasts in the field because we were beasts back then. The sexual circuitry in our brain is fairly primitive because to survive a species needs to be good at procreating.

So an ovulating female might take on multiple men and let the best sperm win. It was a good strategy to get impregnated by the best sperm way back when but not so social acceptable now but the circuitry is still there I'd suggest.

I have had dream fantasies of a girlfriend lining up girls for me to do in front of her. Rape fantasies I think fall into this dark circuitry category too. I don't thing it is surprising that our dark mind can come with things that shock us but enormously excite us which is what you describe.

Just keep that distinction between real life and fantasy. And I would point out the above is my pseudo science. We can never know about the sex games of Erectus or early Sapiens

DavidRaul · Accepted Answer

Well its ok to have such dreams and you shouldn't feel bad about it. You really want to experience this but your conscience wouldn't let you as you love your boyfriend. Its a kink that you have but you would feel like you have betrayed your better half.

Shehnaz · Accepted Answer

Sounds like a dream to me, but just a dream. Try not to enact it in real life, there is a difference between fantasies and real life. This dream shows your inclination towards a threesome with well hung black hunks which is okay, now your brain is also telling you what you are risking, commitment and a permanent future with someone you love, then again your pleasurable fantasy takes over and makes you dream that your lover loves you so much that in that very situation he proposes to you. You want the best of both worlds which is why it is called a dream.

erandal · Accepted Answer

Maybe, and I could be reading this wrong, but perhaps that while you think you want hot and dirty sex with multiple men you also have a strong desire for commitment and you need to start thinking which direction you want to go.

RobT312 · Answer

Hot fantasy! give it a try for real, you may love it !

StevieNix · Answer

Why would it be cheating if your boyfriend was on-board? Maybe I have a different definition of cheating.

Berethor · Answer

It's a very slutty dream.

Guy__ · Answer

I've had disgusting sexual dreams, of course they make me hard because they're sexual but I do not wish to experience them ever again. I mean screwing a woman I never wish to see.

20yearsolder · Answer

It means you like to be pounded and throat fucked and degraded. Hopeful that it turns your boyfriend on.

Th3ft · Answer

Lol! So it sounds like you are just super attracted to sex in a threesome and the fact that your dream had your boyfriend watching rather then fucking you is bothering you so why not just ask him how he feels about sharing. Or how he feels about an open relationship. And maybe you can open up the opportunity to make that dream come true partially.

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Why? Cause it's a fetish you have, there's nothing more to it

SiberFox · Answer

🤮 what the f...

bowenw · Answer

Your dream is probably the result of something you've fantasized about and your brain's way of showing you a what it could be like, to help you decide if you want to try it in real life.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I suggest you keep it as a fantasy. If you bring it up to your boyfriend he will likely start looking for the exit.

TCredo · Answer

awesome post... just awesome :)

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It's just a naughty, taboo thought. As long as you don't act on it, you'll be fine.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

Wow!!! What a fantasy!!! Your boyfriend would be a very understanding guy if he ever allowed this haha 😄

jengeorge26 · Answer

So do it…it’s not dirty

smilelots · Answer

wow just wow

AmeerX · Answer

You are polyamorous

Kinkyhubby · Answer

That's hot

Rizwan_khan · Answer

If I'm not wrong this same question and senerio has been asked before by someone else. But it's okh. It is just a dream. Enjoy your dream that it.

Reddy4it · Answer

I love this dream!!

Caps_d_ed · Answer

I mean, it's a dream to start with. We see some weird stuff there. Maybe you have a thing for threesomes, but not every detail in that dream needs to be your fantasy. It's quite normal. What turns you on is that threesome part, not the cheating on your boyfriend part. Chill out.