Do women want to sleep around when they get little attention or when they get lots of attention?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I would say both , considering most girls want opposite of what they already have , most girls have the grass is greener syndrome in them , A girl can say she wants a nice guy , when she finally lands a nice guy she will get bored of him and decides she needs a bad boy instead vice versa , Why it’s best for us guys to be a little bit of both when it comes to us really liking a girl , Girl’s are just made that way , they need that drama in their lives to keep them on their toes , if a guy is too nice to her she will eventually get turned off if he is too bad for her she will eventually get turned off , so it’s best for us guys to balance both and make her feel like she has a challenge , I always been told I am a nice guy , but I always end up with girls that love my nice guy personality but then eventually they get bored of it so I let my asshole side come out of me just to keep her from making a dumb decision and straying , but if she still strays that’s my answer to kick her to the curb, I will play her games as long as she stays faithful to me , the second she betrays me it’s over , I been lied to and cheated on before to realize I don’t tolerate that shit and deserve better than that shit. If a girl can’t prioritize me like I do to her she is just wasting her time and money because I only give what I want to receive , if she wants to be selfish than I will be selfish as well , if she wants to treat me like shit I will treat her like shit as well , if the negativity doesn’t stop then I walk away , if I feel like a constant punching bag I walk away , I will communicate my feelings to her first and if nothing changes then I say good luck to you cuz I realized I don’t need a girl, I want a girl to value me like I value her, she wants a commitment then she better commit to me , Relationships are not easy but they also shouldn’t be that hard , when it becomes constant hard then that person isn’t meant for you , love only grows when 2 people remove selfishness for each other and sacrifice for each other and make each other their number 1 priority, when I don’t feel like a priority to her anymore I make it clear to her that she is preparing herself to be single again , because if she isn’t wearing my shoes like she expects me to wear hers she is in for a rude awakening

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I don't know it depends on what you mean by the question do you mean that if a girl is in a relationship and she's not getting enough attention that she will sleep around or are you saying when a girl is in a relationship if guys are giving her a lot of attention that she's going to sleep around I look at it like this if a girl is in a relationship she's not happy she should just say goodbye and go do whatever she wants but if girl is in a relationship and her boyfriend is not keeping her happy she needs to have a talk with him because something's wrong with that picture there's no reason in this world why he cannot keep her happy and fulfilled that's for sure

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

When they don’t get attention from their partners they might be tempted to cheat. I would just break up with someone if they ignored me and took me for granted but I guess when you’re married with kids and stuff it might be tougher.

LovingLoverReturned · Accepted Answer

I realise I voted but the question isn't clear. Attention from ONE person or from MANY. because I thought you meant MAny

Daniela1982 · Answer

Either. All you need is some sweet talk and you can seemingly get into their pants. These types of women are just desperate for attention.

LilyoftheLake · Answer

Either extremity seems to play into it.

rollercalt · Answer

Neither, some of us have standards and don't sleep around based on attention from guys.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

Women who get a lot of attention are pickier with who they sleep with, generally. They aren't desperate, because they know they have options. Girls with little attention will usually use sex in order to get attention in the first place, which is why the least desirable girls in high school are usually the first ones to start hooking up.

Sonorous · Answer

I imagine a woman would be more likely to sleep around the more attention they get. Because if they don't, who would want to sleep with them? 🤣

But I'm not sure either are big enough reasons/determining factors for why a woman would be more or less likely to sleep around than another one.

LazerBean · Answer

Logically I would think when they get little attention, because then they would feel the need for some sort of validation. I don't know for sure though, I've never slept around.

Bratsondanielle · Answer

I never sleep around

TruthBringer · Answer

It doesn't matter how much attention women get. What they want is the top tier guy they crave and would sleep with any "Chad" and "Tyrone" types because it is "exciting".

Whatever2929292 · Answer

I think they are just degenerates. I don't know or care the reasons. If they just like having sex or if they do it for a reason like that or to try and control men. But degenerate's

Miristheiss · Answer

U. S. women... yes.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Both; desperate women who get little attention will give themselves away in attempts to be more well received and women who get lots of attention may conflate their popularity with power. Both are likely mistakes.