I would say it can be. I will be honest when I was younger and more horny I wanted to get laid and I struggled, so there was a lot of frustration and failed attempts at trying to find women, but I knew deep down that I wanted something with a woman that would be longstanding at the end of the day m, which I would say is one reason I probably struggled as bad as I did because I wanted something longterm but was taking inexperience and lack of knowledge about interacting with women and applying it to women who probably were giving me the signals, but not looking for long term things and the window closed fast.
When I finally made it over that hump and had sex the first time it felt great, but I felt satisfied and ok for a while after that. Don't get me wrong, I still have sexual needs and need some nookie now and then, but once I have sex it vanishes from my system and I feel at peace. But the thing is I only wanted sex with those women I had it with.
Quality over quantity is my mindset. Can I go to a club and probably take home a woman or college girl if I really felt like it? Probably since I know better now, but that's not my style.
Hooking up or trying to back then was tedious because it is a matter of location, timing and the firm in question. You are restarting with a new woman every time one rejects you and it is time consuming, can get expensive and tiresome. Man, fuck that, I will take quality monogamous coochie over the hot potato coochie hunt.
This dude is dropping wisdom
you were talking about two different things. Yes, it is definitely better to have a number of girls on the hook with whom you can have sex with far less effort. In fact, I maintain that you should always be working towards this. Every sexual encounter is an interview for future encounters. We should always be trying to make ourselves desirable for the future.
But I don’t think that new conquests will ever stop being exciting. In my opinion, the initial penetration-while looking into her eyes-have a girl you just met is without a doubt the best feeling. It is worth the effort. but I don’t think that new conquests will ever stop being exciting. In my opinion, the initial penetration-while looking into her eyes-have a girl you just met is without a doubt the best feeling. It is worth the effort.
Of course, If you have a harem to fall back on it makes hustling for that next conquest much easier, in my opinion.
(By the way, I’m not saying I have achieved this goal. At one time, I had three reliable lays that I could call on, though one of them was pretty far away. It turned out to be a lot of work to maintain that “stable.. “)
Hmm very interesting, you’re right brother
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Read the book Hooked as it was research by Neurologist from a medical journal please. It is the nonscientific version. Hooked references "body counters, friends with benefits, and applicable to Porn. The brain rewires and desensitizing occurs. People lose the ability form bonds and intimacy, therefore, unable to maintain a long-term relationship with people as a whole. The book combines the mind, body, behavior, and real-life outcome. I do not want that sort of detached, numbed, and relational dead life... It is pretty close to sociopath status... no empathy or emotion for other living beings.
Yup, after a bad breakup, there was a point I had a few one night stands. They got old really quickly!
Looking for new girls was mundane, I was about to give up when I found my girl, and I have no desire to go back to that.
So much time, energy, money wasted trying to get pretty but shallow women's attention.
I don't have time for dates or chats that go nowhere anymore, or women that just loose interest for no apparent reason.
Plus I've come to the realization that I want to feel desired not so much like I'm king of the hunt or the pussy conquer, I don't want to be convincing women why I'm worth their time which basiclly what dating is for men.
Honestly if I was single again and wanted to fuck I'd just hire a prostitute, less time consuming by far, probable break even or even be cheaper than paying for drinks, dates and dating bs costs, and if I had the money I'd rather give it to a legit prostitute than some stupid sugarbaby that only likes me cause of money anyways.
I don't know about this sorry... I don't sleep around like a sailor
No.
Sure pussy is pussy and you get guys who are addicted. But hooking up is not just sex, but being in the life and team of another.
Most definitely... As much as women talk sh! t about how men are at sex.. They aren't much better.. They mostly rely on the fact that many of us cum fast and easy.. Sex is much more fulfilling when you have with somebody you care about and can discover new things with instead of countless new women..
90% of women just lay there
@TomatoSoup Yeah they definitely do..
"It doesn't matter if I sleep with 2 different girls or 1,000, I'll still cum too fast either way. Girls are amazed at how fast I cum"
-Steve-O
I wouldn't know. Never had a hook up.
Pussy just don’t excite me like that anymore. Maybe because I know I can get it when I want it or maybe it’s cause I really just crave my girl. I don't know but last year was my first year single and to cope I slept around a lot. Shit was wack. Bitches are lame and boring and I realized I just need a down female for me and only me. Plus I feel that the sex is always better when you’re with a trusted partner you can be very intimate with. I ain’t get nasty with my hookups lol
It's surprising, but yeah. Hooking up can get really old.
Explain it a bit more so we can see it from your eyes.
It's all about your return on investment. If I'm the kind of dude who likes hooking up a lot, all I'm trying to do is get laid. That's basically one or two nights of physical pleasure (which might not even be that pelasurable, honestly); roughly 3 to 4 hours of total pleasure, in exchange for however many hours of work and however much money it takes to get to the right place to score with those women. But then you might say that your real goal is getting women on rotation, but then think about the fact you're fucking the same girls multiple times, and you still have to pay for and dote on them like you would a girlfriend; and all you're getting is physical pleasure becuase she's not going to give you any of her emotions and she'll drop you on a dime as soon as she feels like it. The best situation is a girlfriend, in my opinion, because you're investing the same amount of effort into landing her as you would any girl you're trying to put on rotation; but you're getting emotional security on top of that, you're having sex with someone you trust and you have a connection with a woman who is going to make an effort to please you.
Goddam that’s a great explanation
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