Why doesn't my boyfriend go down on me?

His ex wife didn't like it so he had never done it before, we've been together for 9 months and he's only done it twice, he makes up in other ways, do you think I tasted bad or he's nervous or what?
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Superb Opinion

  • Some guys aren't into it.. Did you shower before? Did his mouth stink after he went down? Clean pussy is still an acquired taste. Would you do anything he asked? Should he wonder why you may not want to go ATM or toss his salad? Dont take it personal, he just might not have a liking for it. Do all your girlfriend love giving bjs?

Most Helpful Guy

  • He probably just doesn’t feel confident in doing it. I dont know though. Maybe you should ask him if he likes the way you trim it sometime or something or maybe some time play with yourself a little in front of him and then lick your finger. And ask him if he wants to taste it too. Ooo! You could start playing with yourself one night on a date while your eating dinner or something while he maybe doesn’t know that you are turned on and then reach over and pout your finger in his mouth.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Do you taste and smell good? Maybe he thinks he doesn't know how to do it. Have you told him you want him to do it?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • When he was licking Miss Kitty, did you give him lots of verbal feedback, moaning, groaning, etc?

    • I think so

    • Does he act like he really wants to please you sexually or is he more focused on himself?

    • He wants to pleasure me. Sometimes I have to tell him I've had enough

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  • What does he say?

  • The next time you're really turned on, dip your finger inside yourself and taste it. Why don't you ask him? You know what I really find hot is when you go down on me and I think you do a great job when you do it. Why don't you do it more often?

  • You must talk to him about it and not overthink it.

  • Inexperienced, bervous, or maybe just dosent like doing it. Talk to him

  • Ask him. Tell him that’s something you want from him and hope he starts doing it. Maybe he’s just not that comfortable with it as many of us are not comfortable with doing some things in bed

  • The problem has nothing to do with you, he just doesn't enjoy eating pussy; some men don't.

  • You’ve gotta ask him.

    if you don’t tell him what you want you’ll never get it

  • It all comes down to LOOKS

    I'd never go down on an average chic. Even if she's super hot model type I don't know if I'd go down on her, but definitely not if she's average. I pretty much guarantee that's your problem.

    • Hey let me message u

    • @anonbrunette99 Do it right now! Are you the one asking this question

  • I you wash first it should be fine. Tell him to start eating and give him some direction if he doesn't know what he's doing

  • He could not like it or he’s so use to not doing it it’s not normal yet. Talk to him and see.

  • Are you going down on him? If so, then that's not right.

  • Your first issue is dating someone with an ex wife

  • Not sure what the excuse could/would be,…. But if my girlfriend asked me to go down on her, I would enjoy spoiling her… (although she wouldn’t have to ask)

  • bad experience maybe. I had many like that

  • Probably insecure and nervous.

  • Maybe he's just not into that

  • I have no idea. I love giving oral to a woman. It's so amazing to see her face of pleasure

  • I love going down on my partners. My wife doesn’t like her pussy licked anymore because she says shegets super sensitive and Cums quickly but my girlfriend luckily loves me
    Licking her beautiful pussy all night long

  • Just ask him for more.

    "Can you eat me more? Pretty please? 🥺🥺🥺"

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