I am a very sweet and cool girl we can talk about so many things but guys prefer to talk to me about how aroused they are and how they want sex with me. I mean why guys only see me as a sexual object?
First of all, guys, especially guys in your age range, are as hungry for sex as you would like hungry for food if you hadn't eaten in two weeks. Being a man means that you are constantly seeking sex - that's the fundamental nature of a man.
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Second, think about the pictures you have on your IG. Would most men see them and assume that you are a young woman striving to become a quality wife and mother, or would they see those pics and say "she's hot - I want to bang her." Which of those two messages do your pictures communicate to young men? Those are the only categories, by the way.
I don't know you, I've never seen your IG, so I am not judging you - how could I? - but if your pictures say anything about you that remotely speaks to your sexuality, then you can't be surprised when men come shopping for what you are advertising. Your IG is the marketing portfolio for YOU, so your marketing needs to reflect the product you are trying to sell. If you are marketing your sexual attraction to men, why would you be surprised when they come shopping for sex?
Of course, marketing sex gets you FAR more interest from the market, but it's the wrong kind of interest if you aren't trying to sell your sexuality. You may need to revise your marketing plan...
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What kind of pictures are you posting there is not much of a reference for me to give you a better opinion or advice on. Other than saying when it comes to social media its all about how you present yourself, and most guys on social media are embolden by the anonymity.
At then end of the day men on social media, other then straight up dating apps, are not looking to be your friend they want to have sex and if something more serious comes of it later that's fine. But they are not going to invest hours of conversation into a women that they will never be able to hook up with. They are probably doing this same thing with like 10 other women at the same time, and maybe at best only 1 in 100 will hook up with them... so its a numbers game and they are not going to invest any time into you if you are not going to hook up with them. Your just one of the 99 women they got to screen through in order to the find the 1.
@marianna_kii_ is my IG even before bikini photos guys acted this way haha
Yeah, guys on social media are creepy... so it yeah I believe you.
True hhaha
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It used to be that it was recommended that you go to church to find guys that weren't looking for sex, but I'm not sure that applies so much either anymore... lol
I'm frankly surprised that a lot of the guys here in the comments agree with the horndogs you're talking about. So let me be the voice of reason, for a change.
Now I don't intend to blame you or anything like that, but have you ever wondered why that is? Like, are you subconsciously or absentmindedly portraying mixed signals to the guys you talk to that you're dtf? Because mark my words when I say this, most of us men are terrible at reading between the lines and we tend to take things way outta contexts, especially if we're inexperienced with flirting and relationships in general or if we're just bad at reading girls.
Like I won't even lie about this, I started to catch feelings for this one girl I knew for the longest time who I thought liked me, but she was just being casual friendly and she was the same with every other guy. If that's the case with you, don't associate or talk to guys who you feel come off as weird and creepy, or someone you think will fall for anyone easily, unless you want them too.
It's with every guy every girl on this planet if you understand energy and you understand that we all have it within us and some of us projected fever and harder than others some of us can fill it deeper than most people
A new picture looks really nice and on your question about the guys on Instagram I can said you have to understand something about you yourself first of all you're very beautiful girl second of all the moment somebody reads your question are the moment somebody looks at you they can feel your energy and it's very very beautiful energy I mean it's like a magnet for every guy that answers your questions they're going to want to talk to you because your page pulls them in that's what energy does and when they're energy touches your energy are as matter fact your energy touches their energy it's a major major turn on that's what you do to guys you turn them on you arouse them because your energy is so beautiful it's so sexy and no matter what nine and a half times out of 10 they want to conversation of sex because if they can feel how beautiful your energy is without even having sex or talking about sex they can only imagine what it would feel like with having sex so they have to take to that place
The guys that are doing that view all women that way...
There's men that aren't that way, but doubt you're going to find them on Instagram
It's pretty normal for me too when I was on IG and had an online presence outside of GAG.
It is likely the anonymity, they probably would never do that in person, but they keep doing online to everyone they think looks good or is a hottie, much like fishing... hoping someone will bite.
That's just how some guys are sadly 💀 I mean there are good ones out there but some just want a short-term fling
I think most, not all, men and women are only looking for hookups when they pursue people online.
Any partners I've had, I've met them in places other than online or in a bar.
It varies on the type of energy you are sending out and how your Instagram is portrayed. I understand that you said you are sweet and cool and that might be your perception of yourself but you need to take a look at your IG page and see if you are giving out a different vibe because the way you act is how you will get treated. Also note, that is what many guys want to do sadly so sometimes it's best to block and just ignore those people.
Because they're not out in public meeting women in their area to actually have sex with them. Not judging on sexual promiscuity but being desperate for a person on the internet you've never met and don't know has never made sense to me. It's pixels on a screen... Not saying this is the case for anyone in particular but with so many filters in these apps how does anyone honestly expect what they see is what they'll get?
Numbers game for them. Eventually someone (ever so unlikely) will cave and give them something they want
Yeah whenever it’s online many guys feel like asking for nudes and stuff and get horny for some reason… it’s normal i guess, they wouldn't act the same in real life (like they wouldn’t come to you in a bar and ask you to show your boobs lol, they may want to but wouldn’t dare, online it’s ‘okay’ much less threatening to ask and be sexual)
That's how the majority of guys your age are unfortunately.
I was talking to a female friend about this just yesterday. Yes, beautiful but she is worth far more than just her body and looks and she is the same as you. Why can't men see her for who she is and not just see her as a sex object. She and I agreed that it's a patience required and being selective and getting to know someone very well. Sex shouldn't even enter the equation if he has genuine feelings for you as a person. It's nice to be called beautiful and to be given compliments but there's way more to a woman than her body. Hope you find someone who loves you for you.
Instagram has turned into a dating place I wanted to be on Instagram to show artwork and travel
and felt Instagram was like Tinder I would try an alternative to avoid them or tell them you are
on Instagram for friendship and common interests
The dating coaches online are telling men to look for women as one nighters This has become a huge problem and these coaches are con artists making money off of insecure men that want notches on their belt I have seen some on YOUTUBE they are terrible and very sexist I have told them off about their callous behavior toward women They will bother all women on Instagram
Why are you even on Instagram? That place is a cesspit of depravity.
I gave up years ago
Well because I am loser. I'll talk about whatever you want for a few days, but I want to talk about sex and what you and me both like. I am you know... to not do it.
at least they're honest with their intentions
Imagine a guy you meet is also sweet, lovely and wants to talk about various topics. You guys play truth and dare, you both grow closer and he asks for your number. Everyday you both talk for hours, he says "you're the only girl I talk to". But later you find out he is kinda interested in other hot models/girls as well. HOW WILL YOU FEEL? Naturally you will want to cut him off for lying to you but then HE WON'T LET you go, he'll beg, he'll reach out from everywhere and will tell you he'll be exclusive and stay loyal to you, he'll say he wants it to last forever (but everyone gets bored, especially liars).
Trust me it will be more difficult to move on.
Internet is land of no consequences.
People go into bad energy. Our consciousnesses fluctuate. Especially when they're tired or have had a bad day.
And people become bored and horny.
And chatting to some scantily clad lady, or seeing her image, stimulates us.
So when we message like horny toads.
You know how it is girl.
But it's the internet. You know what you get here. You know what you will get if you post pics like that here. Attention, and lots of it. But like anything. There is a shadow side. You can't have the light without the dark. So you can't just have all the light. You know the rules of the game.
Woah, this makes me glad that my Instagram accoubt is for decorating.
Definitely not your problem, Internet is like a gray area. You can find anything there.
Let me guess: You posted pictures in your underwear again and are confused about the echo that created? 🙄😂
Haha yes!!!
Wow way to blame the actions of one person on someone else…. You must be a stand up guy…
Oh, come on, Subaru, you know better than that. She is not a damsel in distress, she is well honed in the art of creating attention. That these fools on IG are annoying is an unrelated fact.
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