Do you enjoy JUST making out?

Do you enjoy making out just to make out or do you think it always leads to other.. activities.
Do you enjoy JUST making out?
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  • Funny thing about this, when I was a teen and had my first girlfriend, I liked making out purely out of affection. It felt great to have my feelings reciprocated and I liked the feeling of a girl's lips. She later told me she couldn't always make out without a change of underwear close by. That one comment rewrote how I felt about it and to this day I can't decide if it feels more sexual, more affectionate, or both. I'd say yes.

  • I really genuinely enjoy JUST making out. It absolutely can be the main event. I mean I like going a tad further with some groping and grinding but it doesn't have to lead all the way to sex. I can enjoy a hot steamy makeout session as is.

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  • Men can generally make out for a couple of minutes without a problem, but if a make-out session lasts 10, 15, 20 minutes, the result is very often the phenomenon called "blue balls." That's a euphemism, of course - nothing actually turns blue and it's not even the testicles that are the problem. Instead, when we get aroused, our prostate gland, which both makes and stores semenal fluid, kicks into high gear producing semen, in anticipation of an impending ejaculation.

    Essentially, this at first just "tops off the tank" and creates a bit of "overfull" pressure that creates some physical sexual tension that helps drive men towards orgasm & ejaculation. But if the arousal continues more than a few minutes without any movement towards that ejaculation, the pressure in the prostate continues to build, though serotonin from arousal tends to mask the pain that would otherwise be developing. Then, the makeout session finally ends, and the serotonin rapidly wears off, and suddenly the guy's prostate is painful and extremely tender due to being overfull, and the tiniest bit of movement can cause some pretty severe pain.

    The problem will go away on its own in roughly 1-4 hours, but that's a long time to be in pain or at least tender enough to very easily lead to pain. The pain will go away much sooner if the pressure is relieved, though getting started is much more difficult as any movement is painful until the serotonin kicks in enough to mask the pain - and it never seems to be as effective the second time.

    That's why most men don't want to JUST make out - we generally enjoy the making out part, but the aftermath of being "blue-balled" just isn't worth it, so we tend to avoid long make-out sessions unless we know they're going to lead directly to sex, or at least a BJ, before the serotonin has a chance to wear off in the first place.

  • I love making out, and it doesn't necessarily have to lead to anything else, nor do I automatically expect anything more.

    Sometimes it does kinda suck to end there, though. Getting horny without the payoff can be frustrating. I always respect her wishes if that's all she wants, though.

  • I miss it

  • I enjoy just making out. I can do it for hours.

  • Oh gosh yes! I definitely miss making out!

  • It starts out just kissing, but sooner or later someone is tied to the bed having multiple orgasms.

  • I love to make out. even after all these years.

  • For me, I enjoy making out and we don't have to do other things because that usually makes my day or night especially if I am with a hot woman that I find attractive, on a date or if she's a great kisser.

  • I do, yeah.

  • I love kissing. 💋

  • It's alright but a little tame compared to what I usually get upto.

  • Sure. Cuddles, spooning, it's all good.

  • I love nibbling

    • Making out is fun. It's a precursor for something more, doing it in the elevator for 6 seconds helps increase the sexual tension, getting each other in a heightened state just before dinner out, making each other feel wanted, being flirty, teasing each other throughout the day... it makes foreplay last and last. When it comes to fruition the passion is extremely intense.

  • We both enjoyed being look good and sexy as well as attractive to other.

    We both compliment each other, encourage each other being sexy.

  • Yes. I do.

  • fuck yes. i love just making out for hours but yeah most of the time it lead to many more things eventually

  • I’d rather have it lead to another

  • Yes love it and I like it to lead to other things but I’m good also with a good make out. Haven’t done that in 26 years.

  • hmm fun stuff, i luv it

  • Making out is great as long as it leads to something.
    Girls who prefer to just make out and then stop often find themselves alone.

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