What to do when your sex life slows down with your girlfriend?

me and my girlfriend have been so busy lately we haven't had sex in a bout a month, we both have work and she has school on top of that, and our schedules rarely match up, how should i handle this
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thank you guys for the great advice on date nights, it really helps and i have brought up the idea to her and she agrees, she has just been so busy lately with homework and classes, i always try to help her but college is wild lol
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  • Make a sex date... it works. Sometimes life and school and for some kids get in the way of sex. Stay flexible... have a quickie... they can be fun. How often were you two having sex before school etc got in the way>>>

    I'm sure you both masturbate... keep your bodies in tune by doing that frequently.

Most Helpful Girls

  • For my husband and me, what worked was establishing certain expectations and a basic routine. For us, that meant making a point of having sex at least a certain amount each week and setting aside time for it.
    So despite my hubs (at 39) and me (at 50) both working full-time with different schedules, having two boys ages 10 and 6, etc., we still make an effort to have sex at least 3 times a week, which we almost always do and we set aside two nights (usually Tuesdays and Fridays) after the kids are asleep, and early Sunday mornings before the kids are awake, for it. And not to be overly graphic, but it’s not just basic missionary sex, it’s usually doggie or cowgirl, plus I love giving head and my hubs loves going down on me. Basically, we have sex (almost) like we did when we first got together.

  • Find a time when is convenient for both of you

    Surprise her with a nice dinner at home

    or any place of your choice but at home would be great

    enjoy the night together and maybe you might end up having some special sex

Most Helpful Guy

  • When my then-wife and I got too busy with work, kids, etc. to spend much time together, we made it a point to go out together "date night" at least twice a month, and to have sex at least once a week... that ended up being every Saturday or Sunday morning, early in bed. It did get to be routine, but we at least spent some time together.

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  • Plan time for some sex life, even a quickie is better than nothing.

  • Get out with each other. Ride bikes or other physical and fun activities - lively experiences that make you laugh. A concert. Change of scenery. Get the spark back.

  • Plan for a romantic vacation when you have the time.

  • Eat her kitty and butthole.

    • Hey! could you check out some of my questions? Or just dm me? im looking for help on some struggles of mine.

    • @pleaznhim4me is that the answer

  • Accept her as a keeper.

  • Plan time together and cuddle in bed at night when too tired for sex. Nude cuddling is best.

  • A month. Excuse is too busy to have sex. Your girlfriend is getting it by someone else.

  • Life gets busy. But there’s nothing more important than your relationship so like they say make time for it like a date night once a week. Things will get better. Good luck.

  • fuck her sister.

  • Do you both want to have sex and feel sexually frustrated? My girlfriend and I sometimes just forget. We have it when we want, but there are only 24 hours a day and we need to sleep. My best advice if you are sexually frustrated is to try porn.

  • You may not be having sex but I bet she is.

    • lol sure man, don't project your life on me

  • Get a New one

  • You masturbate or send flirty texts try to keep it spicy and sexy

  • My girlfriend and I live about 2 hours away from each other but we see each other and make love at least once a week.

    Relationships are almost never convenient, but you have to make time for each other. Humans have physical needs, especially at your age. If those needs go yet, infidelity may occur, and if it doesn't, it can still damage your relationship.

    Make time to make love.

  • I assume you had to ask her out

  • Bro check her phone 💀

  • Get a new one...