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I literally have a pancake butt 😣?

This is my pancake butt 😣

I literally have a pancake butt 😣?



I hate how skinny I am 😣 I have NO but. It's just back and then leg 😣 i hate wearing skinny jeans because there is just NOTHING there, does anyone else have a pancake butt or is it just me? 😂😭😔

I also have NO tits I'm size 8A, like the smallest size you can get. I hate just being flat and pancakey :( so embarrassing, it also sucks because it's not like I'm tall and lanky like Kendall Jenner who is tall af and has no ass like most models where it actually suits their body type, I'm 4'11. So my body is just SO fucking boring:(

I want curves

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Although all of u told , I'm attractive and I have a attractive figure , it's not true Bcz I had only 3 bfs upto now, all of them finally told me I'm not attractive even can't catch my body parts bcz they are in micro in size I asked why u start a relationship with me , were you blind at those days . One of them said , he needed to taste how skinny girls' vulva and anus. Others said no sexual pleasure at all bcz of bonny prominences so they needed more fatty breast and butts
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  • I sometimes wish my butt was bigger/rounder, but I don't have a pancake butt, no. I try hard to counter that with body positivity instead of digging into that insecurity too much. You have to steer the ship of your emotions - your thoughts are not facts and if you let your emotions (including insecurities) control you, then you're not grabbing the wheel of your own mind and directing it toward things and ideas that best serve your life.

    If it makes you feel any better, white and Asian cultures tend to value being thin over being curvy. If you're part of one of these groups, and being attractive to men is your concern, it probably doesn't matter socially as much as it would for black and some Latina women. (Of course, interracial dating happens too.) Bigger butts for white people are a new trend. Even the Kardashians (at least Kim) recently got their BBL procedures reversed, I think. Who knows how long it will stay in.

    It's genetics and people in different ethnic groups have different features based on family genetics. However, there are some generalities. Women with larger butts at lower body weights are probably most often black or Latina (often mixed) women. There are different adaptations in early human migration that lead to some groups needing especially large backsides. When Europeans first encountered women with especially pronounced backsides, they treated them like objects to be paraded around for amusement. (“Hottentot Venus”) Even just a few decades ago, big butts were not a beauty ideal for white women. This is not your fault and there is nothing wrong with you. This is just the result of centuries of human evolution and what your specific ancestors needed to survive.

    "Steatopygia is also one of the traits of the evolving human adapting to his surrounding as it was a means of survival in seasonal environments. “It maximizes their bodies’ surface-area/volume but keeps enough fat to produce hormones for menstruation. With fat deposited heavily in only certain areas of the trunk of the body, limbs are left slim enough to expel heat more efficiently.” (4) This explains why steatopygia is very useful in dry warm climates such as those in Africa, and other places where those of African descent inhabit."

    https://serendipstudio.org/exchange/jpierre/history-big-butts

    Love what your butt does for you and try not to compare yourself to others! I encourage trying to accept yourself over plastic surgery or changing your body, etc. Also, the butt is interesting in human evolution.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/1aVEbGjYgfA


    However, it is your decision. Be mindful that the butt implant / transfer surgery is one of the most deadly plastic surgery procedures, if not the most.

    https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2022-07-18/how-the-brazilian-butt-lift-became-one-of-the-deadliest-cosmetic-surgeries

    https://www.thecut.com/2021/09/the-global-pursuit-of-a-bigger-butt.html

    There are a lot of exercises you can do to build muscle in the butt for a bigger, rounder appearance. But expectations need to be realistic. You can only do so much without going to extremes. I've heard squats are good, but I have also heard weight lifting is especially good. Combine the two and get fit while building a butt!

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/yrDqLjZtEtE

    And also there are those butt enhancing undies that you can wear if it makes you feel more confident.

    https://www.stylecraze.com/articles/best-butt-lifting-shapewear/

    You need to also embrace your body. You should build confidence to the point that you don't say things like "my body is so boring." Boring for whom? You're not here to entertain anyone. Curvy girls in the past may have wished they had your body - society teaches us all that our bodies aren't good enough, especially women. But still - A lot of women with flat butts have been viewed as beautiful, sexy, and popular.

    Cameron Diaz, Paris Hilton, Emmy Rossum, Jenifer Aniston, Gwen Stefani, etc. A large portion of actresses and definitely models.

    If anything, it's curvier women who needed more representation for a while.

    There's room for everyone, embrace what you got. Life is way too short! ❤️

    Both Gwen and Aja are killing it here! All butts are good butts.

    I literally have a pancake butt 😣?I literally have a pancake butt 😣?

    • it was deadly because some women went overseas or to mexico and they were mixing aspirin a week before they were given anesthesia and aspirin and anesthesia can not mix it becomes deadly. the surgeons who were doing the surgery didn't warn the patients they couldn't take aspirin a week before the surgery hence all the complications that occurred

    • the first article you linked was only telling part of the story. the insurance companies don't cover such procedures so the women go overseas or they go to mexico or south america to get cosmetic surgery done cheaper but the surgeons aren't skilled at all or skilled enough and don't warn the patients not to mix certain medications with the anesthesia or not to mix aspirin with anesthesia and that's where the complications come in. then you have surgeons who do a botch up job having butts breasts nose lips come in crooked disproportioned uneven because of the lack of skill on the surgeon's part. there's a whole combination of things that were being left out of the article you linked

    • @FckY0u998

      That's a good point, but I don't think it's more important than the primary point about the surgery itself. Medical science explains why it's so dangerous and it's not just about botched surgeries abroad (and not all surgeons abroad perform botched surgeries, of course).

      www.self.com/story/brazilian-butt-lift-safety

      This article explains both factors. But surgeons themselves still admit it's a riskier procedure that may require more research than usual because of how risky it is.

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  • Your skin is so smooth and clear- most men would love to make love to you sis.

    It's like you just don't understand how men see women XD

    I promise you, even though nothing is extended or perky there is smooth fatty tissues that men would love to grab there.

    It's a vulnerable spot that allures men.

    Men love that area of us women because it's the entryway to their happy place lolz

    As far as the chest part- it is the same thing. As a little girl maybe you didn't have boobs, but you'd feel the air on your skin, and this too is a usually covered sacred/vulnerable spot.

    Men would love to make love to you because the sexual definition of a woman is not always bags of bowls hanging every which way lol, but smoothness, and sensitivity.

    You're very different from a guy, and guys know this. Don't compare yourself <: ).

    Also, I say how men would love to make love, but I still hope you consider the right guy. I'm sure lots of good guys would hope you'd do the same, and not tease them with your plays with other males.

    Anyways best of all! (I'm not flat, but I have like a little inch-step XD it's flat, but then it randomly drops at the bottom where the 'tush' meets the upper thigh. We girls can laugh at these things as "it is what it is," and I'm sure you and your SO can laugh about each other all in pure ADORABILITY/ ADORATION.

    Best of all :]

    -xoxo

    • True 🔥

    • @ThebestIndian :]

    • That was beautiful, Rose. And what you said about men was insightful and true.

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  • I'm extremely attracted to girls with this sort of physique. That being said, I do think honesty is necessary here, so I do think your rear-end is too flat. But everything else about you I find very attractive (I don't mean that flirtatiously), including your cup size and height. Thankfully, there are ways to increase the size of your rear-end. Doing squats is one of them. If this is a concern of yours, I highly suggest you do research on how to increase the dimensions of your rear-end.

    Lastly, I apologize if my honesty may have been hurtful, here. I don't like to speak poorly of people's insecurities at all. But you did mention you were questioning people's comments where they said you were attractive, so I figured being entirely honest, even the not-as-palatable parts, would make it appear more realistic and true. And in addition, like I had mentioned, there is something you can do about it. Otherwise, if it was immutable, I probably wouldn't have spoken poorly of it. Either way, I hope you find a man who really appreciates your body type (as well as everything else about you, needless to say), because it's honestly very, very uncommon and I think it deserves to be appreciated and cherished.

    • Also, to be clear, you don't need to have a "thicc" rear-end for it to be attractive. Plenty of people, myself included, like a small, cute rear-end.

  • You can always gain weight and do work outs designed to shape the areas you want, and the success rate will vary with the individual. You'll have to be sure you don't rely on just using added body mass (fat) to be curves without staying toned up. You want added definition, not just added body fat.

    You can start saving your money for breast implants and a butt augmentation. Obviously, you're truly unhappy with the hand you've been dealt, but if you continue to let it mess with your psyche and confidence, you'll just spiral down. My other advice is STOP comparing yourself to other women who in your eyes have "perfect bodies". Darn near everyone would rather have something, or some things, changed about their bodies, even the super attractive.

    Lots of men here have told you the truth - that there are tons of guys who love petite women, and don't think you're a freak or ugly. You should listen to them. So, you kissed a couple of frogs - big deal. Do what you CAN to change what you are ABLE to, but don't get all fucked up about what you can't change.

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  • A lot of guys like the thin, petite girls, you know. It may not be every guy, but lots of guys find petite girls sexy.

    So, embrace who you are and make it work for you.

    • 😂😂😂🤮🤮

  • You do not "literally" have a pancake butt. Unless pancakes were glued onto it.

    I didn't read the rest. Your worries are unfounded.

  • Okay first of all you are you do not compare yourself to other people because you're not that other person you have qualities that those other people don't have and you have to find out what they are your body type your height is perfect for a lot of guys I like that size there's nothing wrong with it I've never heard of a pancake but before that's kind of cute but look at yourself deep because you're not the person on the outside you are the person on the inside and that's what guys fall in love with the outside is all just an extra bonus and from what I see right here the outside is definitely an extra bonus if I can see that you should be able to see that and once you stop comparing yourself to other people you will see it too you will feel it you will become it that's when you would become happy you are what you are you have what you have and believe me what you have is great

    • great answer

  • What's wrong with being a miniature Kendall Jackson? The miniature version is way sexier, believe me. For example, girl elves and fairies are hot, right? Guys fantasize about how much fun short, fit, slender girls are.

    Stop wishing you were someone else. You're a little bad ass. Act like it and guys will believe it.

    • Exactly. And think of how huge kendal Jackson's turds would be. That ain't sexy.

  • It is a myth - PERPETUATED BY FEMALES - that ALL guys want a woman with a big butt and big boobs. There are lots of guys who prefer pette women with small butts and smaller boobs.

    https://www.girlsaskguys.com/ sexual-behavior/q4692301-guys- small-medium-large-or-don-t- care#new

    https://www.girlsaskguys.com/ sexual-behavior/q4692081-when- a-pretty-girl-passes-by-you- loved-the-front-view-what-do- you

    As you can see from these polls, there are lots of guys who prefer smaller boobs and butt.

  • Kendall Jenner is only 5'9" and she's also an exceptionally boring person.

    And you can fix Noassatall. Just do about 10,000 lunges and 5,000 squats, and you're good.

  • You are actually quite attractive. Many men love the thin look. And your skin is so clear and beautiful. It is common for people to look at themselves with too critical an eye. Trust that you are much more attractive than you realize.

    • Your problem is connecting with asshole guys, not your body. From what you now describe, you may need to work on getting more meat/fat on the bony parts. Even so, I still say you probably look fabulous.

  • When it comes to sex with guys, what's far more important is what the guy thinks about your butt, your body. If you spend less time thinking that there's something wrong with your luscious, slim, petite body and just accept that the guys who want a girl with big tits and a bubble ass aren't for you, you'll discover quite how many men think you have a gorgeous body and will want to get to know you...

  • Well you could have an ass like a black woman who eats chicken every week and her ass knocks over children when she turns around

    • ... and knocks over furniture too!!!

    • ... and I'm one of them.

    • I screwed up, meant to say" "and they knock over furniture too!

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  • You are beautiful.

    And also, your ex boyfriend are clowns. No good man who loves you and respects you, will ever say those hurtful things to you. Those are just flimsy justifications. I'm sorry you crossed paths with those boys who did not see your worth. I will repeat, you are BEAUTIFUL and nothing is wrong with your body.

  • You are out of your mind.

  • Your boyfriends must be idiots. I know tons of guys who'd adore that butt.

    • ... and I'm one of them !!!

    • @Bricealan maybe you should meet up... if you like small boobs too? I saw a girl with tiny boobs at a bar. She didn't wear a bra. You could tell her nipples were pierced .. she got LOTS of male attention!!

    • I'm sure she did. Some guys are just plain insane.

  • You are beautiful. Many men (me included) would prefer a leaner body style. You look great!

    • Are you willing to PM? I want to respond to your update.

  • Your body is fine, wait until you have children, believe me you will fill out more than you want to.

  • your body is not boring, at all! I think you look great. Seriously. The fact is that men like women of all shapes and sizes. And, in fact, truly skinny girls are a bit rare; which increases their desire ability.

    Personally, I much prefer very slim legs and a very slim back side. I think you look quite a bit better then all those girls with the weird bubble butts. I mean, if I’m walking behind a girl wearing skinny jeans who has a very small flat backside, I can’t take my eyes off aI mean, if I’m walking behind a girl wearing skinny jeans who has a very small flat backside, I can’t take my eyes off it.

    So, yeah. Guys like girls of all shapes and sizes. Skinny is always better than the opposite alternative. And, in fact, to guys like me your body shape is perfect.

    • I just cannot stop looking at that photo!

  • This is basically the ideal ass, in my opinion.

    • To your update: your physical attractiveness is fine but as you get older people will think it means less. Men want to show you the impulses the sight of your body bestirs in them but that's as much to do with how sexy any girl looks as it does men wanting to believe they have superior sexual capabilities. This is generally something men grow out of, however - Indeed you'll want to be wary of those who seem to try very hard not to grow out of it, as to do so is to lie to themselves. And if they lie to themselves they won't even know whether or not they are lying to you. Anyway, the point is you don't want to be ideal or men will be too nervous unless there is something wrong with them. A lot of men are comforted if they like the look of their girlfriend but no one else seems to. Being thin is never going to go out of fashion, however many people prefer thicker girls. You will eventually find those who want your body and feel they can safely grow out of trying to be perfect once they notice that other guys aren't going to try to compete for it.

  • I’m also tiny, people love it. Your boyfriends sounds like dick who didn’t deserve you to begin with. You look fine 🖤

  • Be proud of your tight little butt. If you stay in shape, your tight little butt is something to be very proud of. I don’t like the flabby Twerking, fat ass people that today’s society praises. I think it looks absolutely disgusting. A tight, athletic butt is what I find to be the most attractive. Be proud!

  • You're very attractive.
    Reminds me of these twins back in HS. Lots of guys would say things about them looking like little boys or some similar BS and then you would see the same ones trying to chat them up. Whatever their reason for doing this, fear of the peers, whatever, it's just immaturity.
    Fear not pretty young lady.

  • Where's the butt. I just see a leg attached to a torso.

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