Doms, what are some basic dominant things you like to do?

[Anonymous]

[PenkWing]

What do you mean by basic? Like, that it doesn't take too much effort, or feels trivial? Let me think of some.

Choose what my sub is wearing to a social event. Can be naughty (something about underwear or lack thereof) or just that I decide on certain articles of clothing.

Have her sit in a special position next to me.

Write an assignment on some topic.

Deny her masturbation, or deny orgasms altogether.

Have her water. Yeah, seriously, if my sub tends to forget hydration, ordering to drink is a very basic way to use my Dom voice, and also take care.

Anything in the bedroom. Or in the dungeon. But I don't know if this post is going there.

Stuff like this?

[Asker]

Yeah, could also be things even more basic than that but that’s a good response

[PenkWing]

Oh, gotcha! The one about drinking water is my favorite because it can be done anywhere and it's obviously about our D/s relationship to us, but not to casual observers. On that note: casually "asking" something like it's a favor, but my sub knows it's an order. It's unbeatable when she giggles with happiness just because I wanted the salt. Petting her head or giving a cute kiss on the forehead, so innocent, yet so kinky. Oh, a huge one: asking about her day. If you've been in a D/s relationship you know what it's like. Or saying goodnight.

[abc3643]

My friend, Dominic, often goes to live-action-role-plays with his wife at Renaissance fairs and such. He dresses up as a knight, I think, and she is a damsel in distress or queen or whatever. I am not into that stuff.

[SnowedIn]

Tie her up spread eagle on the bed. Blindfold. Gentle ball gag. Edge her. Sometimes all at the same time. Give her orders that must be obeyed. Nipple clamps.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Choosing what we eat.

[Asker]

Do they feed it to you?

[AddylynnNightingale]

Sometimes. He wants to, but surprising him with food is something I like to do, so it doesn't happen often.

[ConspiracyTheorist]

Tie her face down ass up and go at it

[Shamalien]

Pin the arms and legs 😋

[peterrezeeek]

I like for her to push me on the bed and do what she likes and watch her reach an orgasm... I like her to do whatever she wants, like sitting on my mouth and licking her pussy.

[lookingeverywhere]

I like to make her watch me masturbate before sucking and fucking her lovely pussy.

[Anonymous]

spanking

[Anonymous]

I love face and throat fucking. For a girl to give her mouth and throat to me for my own pleasure is hot.

The trust, the feeling of my dick in her throat and seeing her enjoy it can lead to even better sex when I'm done with her throat.

[Anonymous]

blindfold, cuff her and go down on her playing with her orgasms