Do you prefer to make the first move?

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TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

My upbringing was promulgated to 'dumb me down' and guilt-ridden, to all but the most blatant 'foreward' flirtations of my Dates. So, I really enjoy when the 'she' elects to be the Aggressor~

Western females are FAR more sensitive to absorbing rejected advances...
"How DARE you NOT want to explore sex with ME!"

XLBBC4White · Accepted Answer

Do I prefer it? Not exactly since I always just go with the flow. I am dominant in bed but as a first move it is very hot if she takes initiative. More times that not, it becomes very obvious when I'm turned on and I love it when a woman wants to see how big I am.

CoolCatMar1 · Accepted Answer

I always made the first move until recently when my boyfriend made the first move. I am glad he did it because i was too intimidated to approach him first because he is older than me 6 years and he seemed so cool and very attractive so yeah🤣

CindyRuns · Accepted Answer

I don't give it a second thought... and it worked pretty well for me.

I made the first move on a guy about 9 years ago... and I'm still very happily married to him !!!

When you see what you want, go for it !!!

summiter · Answer

Not really... either way works fine for me.

LazerBean · Answer

Why the orange feet

Faith18letsgo · Answer

No absolutely not.

SnowedIn · Answer

I don't have a preference. I won't be wishy washy or shy and I'd prefer she's the same.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

No, it's a nice break to have a woman do it, and it's great to feel wanted instead of having to chase for a change.

Mr1derful · Answer

I prefer her to and then it’s on! If I make the first move and she rejects it, I am crushed lol.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I've always made the first move on women. Once or twice I was rejected but it's ok.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Nope. I couldn't care less. But I generally don't make first moves, because women are paranoid and I don't enjoy being hated or feared.

BJP21 · Answer

Im my previous relationship, I was put down for not making the first move, and it I didn't out of respect as to not come across as a creep.

Christoff92 · Answer

Sometime. Especially when she gives me the hint.

Twalli · Answer

I prefer for the girl to.

Surely · Answer

If you are not sure if a person is available. When the other person makes a move. That would answer that question.  Plus it is nice to be the pursuee instead of the pursuer all of the time.