Is it okay to date a friend of your ex (let me explain first before you judge me)?

Question

I was drinking at a bar and was only there because I have the rest of the week off due to Thanksgiving. I was there alone and just wanted a couple of drinks. A girl lightly taps my shoulder and then I realize it is my ex girlfriend’s friend. Not best friend, just a friend. She asks if she could sit down and I buy her a drink. She then asks if I still live in my apartment because it is like 5 minutes of walking. She asked if she could hang out with me. We were both turned on at this point and I could tell she was thinking the same thing I was. She had honestly always had a thing for me but never took action because I was dating one of her friends.
We went back to my apartment and had amazing sex. It was like we were releasing our desires we had for each other after holding them in for so long. It felt amazing and we are starting to talk…

Is it okay to date a friend of your ex (let me explain first before you judge me)?

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Nah, don't beleive this poll result. At this time its say 80% of people are saying its wrong.

Hell no is it wrong, your ex is an ex for a reason and you should feel no obligation to her what so ever. So have fun and enjoy.

Secondly if this woman was a real and true friend of your ex this would not have happened. So obviously she's not a true friend, and that has nothing to do with you. If she wanted to fuck and you wanted to fuck her, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, and you have no obligation or responsible to your ex, or their relationship or friendship with each other.

So, congratulations one your amazing night, here's to many more.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I would not do only because I do not snake a dirty pipeline but you have a good time sludging through it the muck

DaisyM23 · Accepted Answer

It'd be okay depending on the context - how long were you together with her friend, how close are they really, why did you break up, are you and her friend on good terms etc - it sounds like you've always felt something for her which is a bit questionable but if you like each other than whatever

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Totally okay, why wouldn't it be? Sometimes the friend of your ex is your life partner that you haven't met yet. Eliminating them, may mean you never find the right person for you.