Hey everyone, so my boyfriend and I are having some issues with our relationship and sex.
We live an hour and a half drive away from each other, he has a full-time night job, and I am in my final exams of my Masters program. I really love him and find him incredibly sexy. However, I haven't been in the mood for the last month. (haven't even masturbated or anything :-/ )
There has been a LOT happening in my life lately, like both my parents are in the hospital, for different reasons, but both very serious. Im currently taking care of the house, the pets, and my siblings, all while I am in the rush of finals. I've done three all nighters in a row, and there will be more to come in the next couple weeks. I even had a breakdown the other night from how stressed I've been with school, friends and family.
I also have been dealing with a yeast issue, exacerbated by stress, and have been dealing with that the last month. It makes sex painful and unpleasant. All of this has affected my libido horribly, to the extent that I stress about sex.
I told my boyfriend about this, and he is extremely understanding about it all. However, he is concerned with how we haven't been intimate in the past month, and seems low/less talkative lately. I am now stressed about our relationship, because I really dont want to lose him. I feel like that would break me.
Should I feel bad about this? This is my first long-term relationship, and I can't tell if a month is worth feeling guilty about.
Superb Opinion