Eating out versus fingering...which gives better orgasms?

[Anonymous]

1) Which one do you find more pleasurable and which is more likely to make you orgasm? I've never been eaten, only fingered but I never orgasmed from it. 2) Do you find that fingering yourself is less pleasurable than having someone else do it? When I finger myself it feels good but I need a vibrator to feel the amazing sensations and orgasm, but my friend had better experiences with guys fingering her than I did and she swears it gives her the best orgasms. I think it would feel better if a guy did it, making out would already turn me on a lot and it is hotter when someone you are attracted to does it. Do you get good orgasms from being fingered, better than if you do it yourself? I can't finger myself to orgasm. 3) What about eating out? Do you like it? What if a guy never wanted to eat you out, would that be a deal breaker?

[DaBuzzman]

I love both fingering and eating her out. I'm all about what pleases her. If she likes one better than the other, that's what I would focus on doing more of. My only thing about eating out, is it has to be very clean and preferred shaven or waxed there. I have a sensitivity issue that's why. But I'm all about it and give it the attention it deserves! I'd be interested in hearing how it goes for you. For fingering and not orgasming have you tried a nice massage oil or clit warming or cooling gel? That seems to help get things going more and oil provides a deeper different intense feeling (try products by Kama sutra company). We swear by it. Plus the smells are amazing and heightens senses!

[Belgie]

In my experience, girls prefer to be eaten out. A well practised tongue is superior to well practised fingers.

[Anonymous]

1) I have never been eaten out either, only fingered, so I can't give an opinion on it.

2) I do not finger myself a lot, as it takes a lot of effort for me to orgasm from that alone (although I can). 9 times out of 10, I will use my vibrator on me and it works every time. My boyfriend does finger me and it feels good, gets me almost over the edge, but I have never been able to orgasm from it. That is when I bring my vibrator out and he'll get me off with it.

3) If my boyfriend never wanted to eat me out, it would not be a deal breaker, but I would ask him why he doesn't want too or what he has against it. He would also not get anything oral in reciprocation.

[Anonymous]

1. Personally I love having my clit rubbed, I'm very quick with that. However, I also love oral when it goes good :)

2. Yes. When I masturbate I do not orgasm from it, I get to a high place then all of a sudden I'm not horny anymore but I don't orgasm. When my boyfriend does it though I can keep coming all day long!

3. I love it! Most of the time anyway, there are some days where I'm not really in the mood for it, but that's just like everything else. If I got into a relationship and he wouldn't do that for me, then I wouldn't be going down on him until he did it for me :)

[manmeat]

whats the most number of orgasms you have had in a row?

[greenbeans23]

Yea I'm in the minority but fingering feels more pleasurable to me, at least the way my boyfriend does it. And him doing it to me feels better than me doing it to myself. I don't know if it would be a deal breaker if a guy didn't want to eat me out...it would probably just make me not ever want to go down on him

[Scorpi]

Oral. I have never orgasmed from fingering. Guys just never seem to do it right, and it always ends up feeling uncomfortable. For the second question, I don't really ever finger myself, I find that uncomfortable too.

[Chrissy1986]

id say a combination of the 2 are the key

[sass_pants]

I agree. A combination of the two will give you the best orgasms.

[collie22]

Fingering myself is great but sometimes some one else fingering me is better. Depends on how horny I am.

[Kamikaze00]

Get married, stop torturing yourself, later you might say, my dream was a fairytale but I turned into a cheap whore.

[Anonymous]

1. Oral is more pleasurable, I'm not so fond of fingering.

2. Yes, I don't enjoy fingering myself so it's better when he does it to me. No, I have never had an orgasm from fingering whether I do it to myself or he does it to me.

3. I love being ate out sometimes. He loves eating me out way more than I like to let him. I haven't been with someone who didn't love to.

Yes it would be a deal breaker.

[Anonymous]

Give me your p**** to lick and you'll know how good it feels

[Anonymous]

Both at the same time are amazing but I like fingering more. What can I say? I like it rough, oral seems really gentle but its still a great turn on. I don't mind fingering myself when my boyfriend can't get to me but its harder for me to come that way

[Braydiee]

Oral can be rough too sometimes when I'm eating a girl out and I see her reaction that she's liking it and her hand is grabbing my hair and pushing my head into her then I speed up and push harder with my tongue on her clit and slide it fast in and out of her it can get rough.. And messy lol

[Anonymous]

I guess I'm hard to please and/or my boyfriend isn't skilled because I've not come from either fingering or oral. But I know that him fingering me is way better than oral - he's able to do the angle and pressure on my g-spot way better than I can - it feels amazing while his fingers can last! Why didn't you ask about clit stimulation with fingers or a toy? Most women that can orgasm can only do it that way, about 70% of women aren't physically able to orgasm or feel much from the g-spot.

[Anonymous]

oral obviously...