Do you think vibrators are tough competition for guys?

[Anonymous]

1) I've heard some guys say that they can't compete when girls can give themselves such amazing orgasms with a vibrator. Well I don't know, even still, it isn't the same as having a guy. Even if the vibrator gives a strong sensation, the physical attraction I have with the guy and his actual being there and not just in my imagination, his mouth on my mouth, his hands on my body, his you know what in other places, turns me on more than I can with just a toy. How do you feel about this? 2) How do girls orgasm from intercourse? I only had sex with one guy so I'm really not experienced. But what positions will get your clit? Or if not, how do you get the G spot so you can orgasm? Is a G-spot orgasm diff than a clitoral? 3) What are your best positions for using a vibrator? I find that if I lie flat on my back, open my legs really wide and keep them up in the air while going up and down and side to side, using the vibrator on my clit I get an INTENSE feeling. That while using my other hand to actually finger myself=omg. To orgasm, I need to go pretty rough with the vibrator, not run it over lightly. What about you guys?

[kheserthorpe]

1) Its a potential issue for some women I guess, much like some men learn to masturbate with a really tight grip and SOME of those guys then have trouble reaching orgasm during sex. I'm not sure that either of these are common, but they do happen. I don't think its normally permanent.

2) I'm not a girl, but ... Some women can orgasm without clit stimulation, some women get enough clit stimulation from the base of the guys penis, some women touch or have their partners touch their clit while being penetrated. the Gspot is one of several areas in the vagina that are particularly sensitive. The g-spot is a couple inches in on the front side of the vagina (i.e. nearer your belly button. Any position or angle that increases friction and pressure on that wall is likely to increase g-spot stimulation. Women would have to comment on how they experience different orgasm types.

3) Apart from noting that this is pretty hot, I can't help :D

[Brandan_Cromartie]

They have made entire machines dedicated to sexual pleasure and people still hop off them to be with their partners.

[queenofpeen]

1. A vibrator just isn't the same. Penis > his fingers > my fingers > a toy. I like having the whole guy with me, haha. Plus, I never have multiple orgasms with a vibrator (but that's just me).

2. If his penis is short enough, cowgirl is really good for rubbing your clit on his skin right above his penis. But if not, I just rub my clit during sex or ask him to do it for me. That's the only way I've orgasmed during sex. G-spot stimulation feels really good but I've never orgasmed from it, so I can't give much advice in that department.

3. Definitely flat on my back, the way you described. That's the way I masturbate with or without a toy, something about the pressure is fantastic. I'm pretty rough when I masturbate too haha, I tend to beat the crap out of my clit.

[Brando]

A vibrator can't manhandle her :)

[Chrissy1986]

to me nothing beats the real thing

[Caliguy88]

I feel like girls like the real thing more than guys. I love toys and don’t worry about it. My female friends are super open, seems like they either like the way you do, or laying on stomach squeezing it or shower. When I’m with girls using them they seem to always go on the back and open to give a show.

[wtfCharlie]

I prefer the real thing but can't get anywhere near orgasm with someone else. :(

[Anonymous]

Please, a vibrator has nothing on me

[Anonymous]

I think guys are more intimidated by giant dildos than vibrators