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I'm embarrassed to have an orgasm with my boyfriend?

I'm wondering if any of you girls or guys can relate to an issue I'm having with my boyfriend. We've been having sex for a month or so now and I for the first time I think I'm getting close to having an orgasm during sex. My issue is that I have a huge mental block when it comes to actually letting myself go in front of him. I just feel like the face that I make is really embarrassing and I also don't feel comfortable being that vulnerable/on display for him. And honestly I don't really get how he's able to do it in front of me either. For those of you who are able to orgasm in front of your partners, how do you get yourself there? We've tried turning the lights off but it doesn't seem to help much because I know my body is still going to do weird things/I'll make weird noises.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's quite a sure thing that you have yet to be really comfortable with him, you are probably conservative with a thot that girls who enjoy sex are not so good girls after all! However if he is what you want him to be in your life and enjoy this intimacy with him, then all you need to do is to allow for yourself to come once, thereafter, you will continuously come ... So enjoy in peace.

  • How long have you been together? Maybe you just need more time to be comfortable with him. Remember there's really nothing to be embarrassed about. Most people do look silly when they orgasm, that's just how it is. It's endearing, in my opinion.

    • about 3 months now, and yeah you're right I think I still need time to get used to doing sexual stuff with him

Most Helpful Girls

  • You've got some hang-ups for sure. It's hot to see someone's come face and to know you caused it. I don't have issues having orgasms with my partners because I relax and enjoy myself. Nothing is sexier than someone who is relaxed and enjoying him or herself with their respective partner. I LOVE eye contact while my partner and I reach orgasm.

    • thats way too intimate for how casual sex is lol

    • Here's my thoughts on it: if you're too uncomfortable to look at him or have him see your come face and you say it's far too intimate, you should've kept your knees together and waited until you were ready to be intimate and open with someone you were comfortable with. Clearly you're not ready for sex, casual or otherwise.

    • lol he's my boyfriend so it's def not casual. but yeah maybe I'm not ready to be having sex with him

  • There really is nothing to be embarrassed about. I felt the same way once and even talked about it with my boyfriend at the time (now my husband) and he said actually my noises and facial expressions are what help him get off. so just let go put the guard down have fun!

  • Mine are embarrassing but I still go with it. You’ll be ok

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • We love to hear you orgasm! Don't hold back.

  • I'm not embarrassed of myself that's why I can do it.

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