Why is my friends with benefits acting distant?

We were great friends, he initiated the FWB, and we've been doing it a couple of months. Our whole friendship he would always text me, and we'd text for hours. He started acting distant by texting a lot less. Then one day I text him asking if he wanted to come over, and he ignored it. Then he didn't text me for a whole week, and now ignores my texts and when I saw him in person he was mean to me. Why would he be acting distant all of a sudden?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • He found a girl he has feelings for, other than friendship and sex. That is what happens most of the time. A guy can have sex with a girl he likes a lot, but never sees as girlfriend material. He's nice to her, so it works out pretty good for the girl until he meets a girl he thinks is super hot and wants to make his girlfriend. Then, he drifts away or starts acting like a d***.

Most Helpful Guys

  • did he get a girl friend?

    did you do something in bed he didn't like?

    did you tell him if either of you got a girl/boy friend that you two could go back to being friends?

    someone could have told him a roomer about you that made him not want to hang out with you any more... I know that happens allot where I live.

    • Do you think they started to like you and now distance themselves because you can't catch feelings in a friends with benefits situation?

  • Perhaps you did say something hurtful to him without noticing ?

    Perhaps he met someone or got bored ?

    Or perhaps he was expecting you to fall in love with him, and it didn't happen ?

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