Four months of dating and no sex yet? What's going on here?
I think it's long enough that a lot of feelings can develop and you could hurt him badly if he finds out you were f***ing someone else all this time. Not only you guys never had sex together but you haven't even talked about what each of you want?
Girl, it's time to get your act together with that guy. If you like him you better start acting the part and try to get farther with him. This lengthy in-between situation is a disaster waiting to happen.0 0 0 0The reason for having a friends with benefits is because you don't want(/have) a boyfriend ;)
sounds like you like this guy, obviously break it off with the fwb... its not like there is a lack of guys who like sex with no strings attached if it wouldn't work out.0 0 0 0
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The guy that you're seeing dosn't know that you're in bed with someone else. How do you think he might feel if he were to be aware of that? Pretty bad I think so. It's for the best to stop sleeping with your friend with benefits if you're going to be seeing someone else.
0 0 0 0Put yourself in his shoes. If you were him and he were you how would you feel if you found out? If the answer isn't "like I'm on top of the world, amazing, incredible, I love him all the more" then you're probably doing something wrong.
0 0 0 0Yes you could and that's good idea that you going to stop seeing your FWB.
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0 3Ditch the new guy and go back to your friend with benefits...leave that poor bastard you are dating alone! Dude deserves better.
0 2 0 0I agree here, that's completely messed up! and here is another truth: If you said " lets have an open relationship" that means you are having an open relationship, and he is in a commited one.
Well I actually stopped seeing him for a while, so I went back to my FWB because he started seeing another girl. But then we started again, I haven't slept with any one else since then I was just asking because I wanted to know what to do since I'm supposed to be seeing my FWB tonight. But I've decided I'm just gonna tell him straight and tell him that until I know exactly what's going on that I'm not gonna do anything that might mess this thing up, because I actually care about the guy.
If you found out the other guy (boyfriend material) has been sleeping with a friend with benefits of his own while dating you, and you'd honestly feel "that's totally fine", then you also should feel free.
If your answer is "no that's not fine", then you should stop sleeping also. This has nothing to do with how you'd find out for sure or if he's even got a FWB and doing it at all. The point of this is more of a guide.0 0 0 0All I can say is that I truly have sympathy for the poor, unsuspecting dude who's dating you.
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