Should I tell my friend with benefits that I had a miscarriage or should I just keep to my self ?

Should I tell my friend with benefits that I had a miscarriage or should I just keep to my self ? I found out about 3 days ago did not tell him I was wait to go see the doc but now I'm bleeding . I know that I'm having a miscarriage. What should I do? My friend with benefits know that I wasn't wanting to get pregnant and that I was protect my self. And Now This! the day that I took test it was pos and also I'm bleed(now) mid-heavy with Tissue or clot-like material that passes with cramping some that I never get with my peroid. I call my doc they said that it common to have miscarriage when the first 20 weeks and The risk of miscarriage is lower after the first 12 weeks of the pregnancy. I was only like 4/5 weeks. Frist the because that is IUD have been on it for the last 4yrs and never had an issue. Second yes he is the only person that I have been with for 4+ months
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You should really tell him because after a miscarriage they discourage sex for a couple days! Besides oli he cares enough to want to make love to you he while care about this as well! I've been through a miscarriage on my own it's not fun! The whole "what you don't know doesn't hurt you" does not come into play for something like this! You may also want to find a new method of birth control because it doesn't sound like the one your using is working! That is unless you want kids!

  • I had a miscarriage, and told the guy, and he was really really happy that I did. Mistakes happen, people get pregnant on accident, and sometimes those unborn children will never come into the world. But you guys still could've had a child together, and that's the perfect opportunity to talk to each other and figure out if this is something you should keep risking.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If it's all the same to you, then I wouldn't bother bringing it up unless you want to start using condoms. In that case, you'll want to tell him long before you have sex again as suggesting condoms can be quite a turn-off, and could even end it.

  • Tell him. This way you guys start using protection, or if you're really wanting to get prego with him, then keep going like you are. But you did state you don't want to get pregnant, so you know your choice.

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  • All things being equal...it should not matter...I guess my inclination would be to be open and tell him...if you think he might freak for some unknown reason...then maybe not?

  • That guy needs to know so he can be more careful about poppin' nuts inside vaginas. Once he finds out he could of been a father on accident it'll change his perspective.