I don't think you need to apologize.
If you still have feelings for him, you could tell him you put up walls and pulled back because you were getting feelings and assumed he didn't want more. And that to be honest, you still have them.
It probably goes nowhere.
I voted B in any case.0 0 0 0yeah I guess if I don't even want it to go anywhere I can leave it alone. It was more for my peace of mind but I think I'll get over it
I didn't read one thing worthy of an apology.
You either are looking for a way to keep contact with him, or you're looking for an apology from him- if I was to guess.
Leave it be. He sounds like a less than honorable guy who is messing with your head.0 0 0 0
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You don't have to apologize to him. He was a friends with benefits so he probably doesn't even care. If he did at all, he's over it by now.
0 0 0 0that's what I figured but its hard to move on when you genuinely feel bad for hurting someone... I just figured he cared since he legit argued with me about it like he was hurt that I wasn't that open to him. thanks for your advice
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2 3FWB guys will accept anything. no need to apologize. If you still want his cock. just say so and he will be fine.
0 0 0 0like I said, its not that I want anything from him but is apologizing the right thing to do? I haven't attempted one of these relationships before and I understand it was casual but I feel pretty bad
a FWB is owed nothing. I am one and have been one. part of the deal. we are a toy. meat for your pleasure.
very true... I'll take this as a lesson learned
If you knew he was a player, why bother with him at all? Women logic :\
0 0 0 1what is the point over shaming me for my decision?...that's not what I was asking. keep your sexist comments to yourself. thanks
Not shaming, just saying it was stupid to bother with him in the first place if you knew he was a player. Difference between shaming and calling someone stupid.
lol um yeah you're shaming me. saying I was stupid for choosing to become friends with benefits with him isn't exactly making me feel good about my choice or at least a neutral opinion on the matter. all I'm saying is telling me that is unnecessary, especially since you didn't even offer advice for my situation.
don't apologize..just move on. gluck!
0 0 0 0I really don't understand the concept of FWB. Being with someone just for the sex? For me sex without emotion looks miserable. No one likes to be hurt, but that is no reason to avoid a real relationship.
0 0 0 0this answer isnot helpful but ok.
At this point I say leave it alone.
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