Have you ever developed feelings for someone you hooked up with?

[Anonymous]

Either it's your friends with benefits or just some person you knew from a one night stand. I met a guy whom I thought was just someone I'm gonna spend only one night with. But we didn't do it right on the night we met. Instead we had a date a few weeks after and turns out he's a really nice guy and we connect well. We finally hooked up the second time we went out. After that we didn't see each for months cause he moved out of the city til we finally went out and hooked up again. He's not in town anymore now but we agreed to meet up again if he's ever coming. The thing is, when we're not in bed we'd just talk like good friends We both enjoyed the sex and we connect well. I'm pretty sure he noticed that also. I'm trying to tell whether I just like the 'idea' of liking this guy or if I like him for real but it's getting a bit confusing to me. Moreover, I don't know how he feels about me. What are your thoughts? Have you ever developed feelings like that? Share your experience, ideas, theories, or whatever :)

[Anonymous]

Why is it now considered abnormal to care for the person you are intimate with? He may like you as a person, but being easy doesn't exactly garner any kind of respect. Next time perhaps you should think before you open your legs for a guy who is nice to you. You have set up a business arrangement and now because he is cordial to you, you think it's something more? If you get free peaches from someone with absolutely no effort on your part why would you be mean? It would spoil your great deal wouldn't it? Don't get your hopes up, perhaps you should try having an adult relationship, rather than being a hooker who doesn't even get paid.

[Anonymous]

I voted A...I developed feelings for a f*** buddy I fooled around with for over a year. It didn't turn out well, of course.

[kambo_trick3y]

Having a one night stand/FWB and then expecting a relationship with a person is a lot like jumping into a river and swimming alongside a fish, then asking the fish to come join you on dry land.

Not very intelligent.

[HungryJones]

I did before, for like 2 days then something happened to remind me why I shouldn't talk to girls who are down for random hookups haha.

[summiter]

What about a friends with benefits relationship...It might also work.

[Asker]

yes that's what I'm actually aiming for

[summiter]

I have been in one friends with benefits relationship and it was fun. We both were free to do as we pleased (and did) but when we got together it was non-stop sex for the evening or weekend. When we did get together the first thing we did was loose all clothing and stay naked the whole time. We would try sex in every conceivable position/way...lots of fun with no strings attached. Just make sure to have some food/beer in the fridge and a whole lot of condoms if you are using them for birth control.

[normalice]

only to the extent that I wanted to hook up again, if she was particularly skilled or attractive..

[Shpongolia]

Yes. And she became my girlfriend that night.

[tiredofwaiting]

No that is risky

[Anonymous]

No I haven't