Guys-Do you kiss your friends with benefits goodbye?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering how many guys let their friend with benefits sleep over? And how many always kiss her goodbye (even if she's still sleeping)?

[beastman88]

i think the whole point of friends with benefits is to avoid creating emotional attachments, and if you can't separate your emotions from sex then I would say just don't do it. you'll just hurt yourself expecting to get that, while the other person doesn't share your feelings. if stuff like that is going on id say it is very weird to be doing stuff like that. just supposed to be sex, maybe cuddling and nothing else really,

[Asker]

Well I try. I started this thinking that it would just be sex, and his actions confuse me. To me kissing someone goodbye everytime, as well as letting them spend the night (without care) signifies more than just a sex buddy. Is this just girly thought? These are among other things, but to me they are biggies

[beastman88]

maybe you're both getting attached?, I don't know, if you're then go with it I guess. I know its hard for some to separate sex from emotions, but there is times where I just want sex all the time with/without commitments. I like sex but id rather be monogamous, get to know people first before I do anything. don't want to be playing with fire and having random sex

[beastman88]

but I do know if I do have casual sex ill always get a little bit attached some how. so iam kind of a torn person in a way. quite the quandary. but id definitely say those type of actions, good bye kisses are acts of somebody getting emotionally attached. that's what id do. that's why they say love hurts I guess

[beastman88]

some relationships are built on sex and if you take that away the relationship will quickly fizzle out. some couples just have really amazing sex all the time and manage to keep their relationship alive that way. relationships not based on sex usually last longer. actually getting to know each other really well, meshing well intellectually and morally, being friends first, best friends even

[bh6676r942]

You might as well I would think, but friends with benefits is religiously bad not that anyone on this site cares

[TheOneTurv]

none lol