Do many girls realize when they blueball a guy?

I was talking on the phone with someone about girls and he was mentioning about how a girl was having sex with him and she wanted to stop when he was already inside. So when he stopped thrusting, without even leaving the vagina, he picked up the phone and started getting in touch with another girl. She couldn't believe it but I certainly can't blame him. Do girls realize that guys will get blueballs if they can't finish? Do most have enough common sense to realize that the guy will be stuck having to deal with potential testicular pain like that? How can I avoid a girl who doesn't have enough common sense to realize such basic things about sex? If I'm gonna do my best to take care of her sexual needs, why would a girl just suddenly go from all flirty to a total dud like that?
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  • what that guy did was totally insensitive. he must have not been enjoying that girl at all and didn't care how she felt if he could just dismiss her like that. girls have feelings you know...and changing our minds is something we do. guys do it too.

    and the only time I've given a guy blue-balls is when I was blowing him and my mom knocked on the door. so really, that wasn't my fault. and as for "basic sexual knowledge," I don't remember learning about blue-balls in sex ed. and when I came across a question a guy asked on this site wondering whether girls can hold in their periods like they can pee, I was dumbfounded. I thought it was common knowledge that periods are involuntary and leakage is out of our control. but then again, I'm female so to me this WAS common knowledge, and also not taught in sex ed.

    so if you are that worried about getting blue-balls, first don't assume everyone knows about it, and second just masturbate. that way it will never happen.

    • Well from what he told me it was just a fling anyway and the girl just "didn't feel like it" anymore and he was not finished. So I don't think she can afford to have any feelings for him or be offended that he is finding someone else to do what she doesn't feel like doing anymore. There's no relationship or anything involved here. When she asked what he was doing he said he was finding someone to finish what she can't. I honestly feel she deserved it from the kinda attitude she had.

    • well sorry I just figured that he had/wanted some form of relationship with that girl. and not feelings for him, but feelings of being disrespected. she changed her mind about the sex, and he stopped, but didn't even wait to pull out before finding another hole he could fill. that's just rude. wait until she leaves at least.

    • I think he did her a favor honestly because if she doesn't care about him finishing well.. that's gonna suck for her in a relationship.

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  • Not my problem that your system doesn't come with an instant shut off option.

    If she's not feeling it, she's not feeling it. Women can go from insane arousal to nothing in an instant.

    That being said, yeah, many are probably aware, and I'm sure they feel bad about it.

    I've done it before. Not on purpose. We were interrupted at an inopportune time in which he was literally cumming during a blow job and someone walked in so I immediately stopped and threw a blanket over him so it looked like nothing was happening. My guess is, since he didn't get a chance to finish, his balls were pretty blue lol.

    • So if your boyfriend ends up being a "minute man" and the sex sucks for you because he cums too fast are you prepared to hear that it's not his problem as well? I would think that if a guy wants sex to be enjoyable for you that you'd be considerate as well.

    • It amazes me how bitter you are about this. God gave men hands too you know.

    • I'm not bitter at all. I'm not the one involved. I'm just trying to see things from both sides. A lot of women complain that their man doesn't please them enough but I am surprised that when a woman doesn't please a man I get these kinds of reactions. Many women feel inadequate when they can't please a man fully so I am surprised that there are girls who just don't care and stop midway like that. I hope I never get put into such a situation. I am lucky that I been with mature women so far.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Most girls don't and there's a surprisingly large number who think blue-balls is a made up thing.

    • Yea I am noticing that. Luckily I haven't encountered these immature girls yet.

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  • Yes there are times we know

  • I never have and never will leave a guy with blue-balls.

    • thank you

    • :)

  • ehh on occasion

  • I do