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How long has it been since you last had sex?

Self pleasuring does not count. But you can talk about how often you do that if you want. Answer: Since 2009 Answer Two: I pleasure myself at least 4 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. You all know how that goes. REASON: Because I don't want a relationship with a mean women. And that's all I know, since my first.
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It seems that many of us are sexually deprived. That shows just how screwy our society is. They always make it seem like we are over sexed and that life is a party. But this forum shows just how blatantly false that "assumption" is. I've noticed many of you men don't believe in self pleasure, but you're also not having sex. That just sounds impossible to me. It's great stress relief. And ladies, stop acting like you don't masturbate. Please answer honestly and openly. Thanks to all.
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  • Six months. That's how long it's been since I got the ol' dumperoo. I don't really want to have random sex and haven't felt like getting into a new relationship. Who knows how long it will be ... I've been past a year before. It takes me a while to "find someone." I'm getting tired of the wait! Ha, ha. Though not having sex is easier the farther I get from getting it 4-5 times a week.

    • I agree. I too don't want random sex. I think it's quite gross tbh. And it is much more enjoyable with a loving participant. Not that I know what it's like with a random person, because I can't imagine doing that. For me sex is a loving and spiritual act. How can it not be? If there's a chance that a human can be created during the act then I am left with the opinion of it being a spiritual act. Therefor, I cannot commit to such an act with just anyone. Cheers :)

  • Still a virginbut I've done things more than just kisses. Well it's been 2 years since that happened. It's more than a year also when I last kissed someone. It sucks I know because I want it badly, I'm sick of being a virgin, but I can wait. Pleasuring myself will do for a while. I don't want to to it with just any guy. I want to do it with my love but sad to say, he is so far away atm. :(

    • Awesome! Stay strong. It will pay off for you to be wise when it comes to sexual relations. There is far too much drama for those whom constantly participate in random sexual acts. The number one drama is having to live with the consequences should the act cause the creation of a human being or worse, an STD. But if there is love in the act then there is trust. And if you trust then you should feel a sense of comfort with whatever the outcome.

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  • It's been two months, and it'll be two more months before I get some action. As soon as this deployment is over I'm going to very nearly attack my boyfriend.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Answer 1: I'm under the dry spell since January 2008

    Answer 2: Is the same as your answer

    Reason: Moved to another city, and been stuck in a depression ever since. And since its been such a long time I've figured I might as well wait for the right girl.

    I always believe that everything happens for a reason, so I'm just waiting patiently.

  • Over two years. College is NOT the sex fest that the media claims it to be anymore...perhaps it never was. Only a select few get the babes and with sexual harassment, I don't bother to try.

    I try to avoid masturbation because it just angers me to get off without a woman. However, I do it about twice per month

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  • 5 months. The thirst is real. I'm struggling haha

    • Let's meet up. Willing to travel and pamper YOU

    • Yes, sexual lust or "thirst" as you call it is real. Which is why I choose to control the hunger through self satisfying means. It is not worth it to have sex with just anyone. Because "just anyone" may not be willing to deal with the consequences should there be any. Besides, sex outside of a relationship is for those whom suffer being sexually incompetent.

  • I had sex just before I went to bed with my boyfriend.

  • beginning of October. been single since and I'm happy with that. self-pleasure: whenever the mood so strikes.

    • Good. I'm happy that you can find contentment with being yourself and are not afraid of being single for now. Too many women rely on finding happiness in courtship and not withing themselves. You are a better woman for it. Stay strong, random sex is for the sexually incompetent.

  • Just a few days before Thanksgiving, the end of November.

  • I had sex twice this morning before work once when we woke up and a quikie right before we walked out the door. I'll probably have sex again when my boyfriend gets home from work

    • Sounds like a very healthy relationship! You GO! :D

  • Two nights ago... I am also in a relationship though.

  • Last year.

    Masturbation? Lol I'm alone at home all day so...

  • Sex: Not done since 17 years. M still a virgin!

    Masturbation: Once a month or even less. M not a big fan of self pleasuring me with my own hand!

  • I work away from home so its been a few weeks :( but when I do get home We will not leave the bedroom :p ... self pleasure at least once a day !

  • Sex Wednesday, took care of my self Thusday, and a handy last night.

  • I'm a virgin actually. It sucks!

    • It shouldn't suck. You're a wise person for not wanting to engage in the affairs of the sexual immorality of society. Stay a virgin until you meet a person worthy of living with the consequences of the act. Your fortitude will pay off. Trust in that. :)

  • never had it

    • Good for you! I mean that. Don't give yourself to just any man because he has a lust for you. It MUST be something more. Because having sex is giving your entirety to a person. And the act should not be committed without fully trusting the motives of your partner.

    • Absolutely it will only happen after marriage :)

    • Well, I'm not so sure that's a good idea either. You have to "test the waters" a bit so to speak. A healthy sexual relationship is important. And what would happen if you married someone that cannot fulfill your sexual desires? Would you honestly be willing to forfeit your own pleasure just for the sake of being married? I, and many others as well; would consider that to be insanity. I'm not sure you want to take that route. You may end up very unhappy. But it's your choice of course.

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  • September of last year.

    • By choice?

    • I guess so I'm not in a relationship right now.

  • I had sex last weekend.

  • Still a virgin. Only thing I've done with a girl was kiss. I've seen tits but by a stripper but I don't count that because they're being paid

  • Two days ago - however I'm in a relationship.

  • 3 days

  • November :/

    • Well lucky you! At least you're not on the verge of forgetting what sex feels like as I am :(

  • Last time was right before Christmas. I masturbate at least 4 times a week.

  • 2 Weeks ago

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