Boyfriend says he really wants to take a shower with me after sleeping together?

So two times now after we had sex he said he wants to take a shower together, since things got pretty sweaty. I'm curious what he wants to do in the shower? Actually just wash up or fool around? If he wants to fool around, does he mean have sex? Fill me in what usually goes on with couples taking showers together!?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It can be fun to take a shower together! I don't do it with my guy constantly, but when we do we usually just wash each other or wash each others' hair, things like that. There is a lot of making out that goes on at the same time but if it goes further then we just move back to the bedroom, lol. It's hard to have shower sex.

  • did that once. he was sweaty and I was covered in dry cum(he had eaten me out afterhe came). so we took a shower to clean up. that was it. he did have me wash his back though. I never knew it was so ugly. but then again, I don't know a lot of guys with amazing backs.

    • trolling

    • apparently.

  • He most likely just wants to wash up and whatnot. I find it really intimate, but it's something I really enjoy doing. You don't need to be so paranoid :P

Most Helpful Guys

  • Showering together is very sensual. Who would not want someone they have sex with soaping up their body and washing it all over. Then switching positions for washing the other. Leading to sex? Possible, but with or without is definitely very enjoyable.

    Why didn't you just say yes the first time he brought it up?

    • i really wanted to but that was after the first time we slept together and we went for 2 rounds, so I figured we should take it slow as I had only previously slept with one other guy. Now that I'm more used to sleeping with him and it happens almost every time we hang out though, I'm definitely down for shower foreplay/clean up if the parents are out :P

    • Good on you. And remember that motels are available if you need private time. No worry about parents coming home too early, etc.

    • Thank you for MH

  • Lots of teasing stroking kissing and slippery fun. Sometimes full sex, but not always. Showers are good for anything anal too because it's a quick clean up.

    Sometimes it's just scrubbing. Sometimes you wind up needing a second shower.

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  • Showering together is very bonding! It's not always sexual. You will know if he wants it to be just a nice clean up and just would like to enjoy your company or if he wants to mess around and have even more fun with you!

  • Usually when I have shower with my boyfriend, we like to fool around and he would clean me and I would clean him :) It's more fun vs. showering alone.

  • Love taking a shower with my man ... it can be very intimate even with out having sex. ! !

    • why

    • Its just the togetherness

  • You might end up doing an encore.

  • ask him

  • Ask him? Mostly.round two or just clean up not.many other possibilities

  • He wants to wash up AND fool around.

    Its called post-sex intimacy.

    He will wash and explore you with his hands.

    You will have the cleanest boobs, pussie and arse in town.

  • Not sure, but I shower ALONE.. if he doesn't like it, OH WELL.. *throws up middle finger because she give sho shyts*

  • when me and my boyfriend shower together we wash each other. If its after sex its usually just to get clean but if its before then we do foreplay like oral sex and touching.

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