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My girlfriend wants to see how it feels without a condom?

I've had sex with my girlfriend a few times and I make sure that I always use a condom because I'm really not ready to have a kid right now. She says she wants me to try putting it in her without a condom to see how it feels like because she's never had it raw (and neither have I). She doesn't want to get pregnant either so she's just asking me to slide it in and see how it feels, taking it out right after. I've done a bit of reading around and I'm getting really paranoid about people saying that pre-cum can possibly make a girl pregnant but at the same time I also want to see how it feels without one because I find that I don't really get much pleasure from sex as much as I do when she gives me a blowjob (without a condom). She's not on any birth control at the moment. Confused at the moment of what to do.
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  • I'm surprised at the number of people who are suggesting that you have unprotected sex.

    She is not on birth control, but asking you to have sex with her with no condom? That's not smart and raises a few red flags. Is she serious? She says that she doesn't want to get pregnant but is willing to have sex with you raw and asking you to pull out. Lots of children are born that way. Is she that uneducated about sex, or is she hoping to get pregnant?

    Just wondering, do you come from money or do you have a good job? Maybe part of her wants to have a kid for some reason...

    Hopefully you guys have both been tested together too. I would hope she doesn't have an STD that she is trying to spread around...things like that happen to. I've heard of people catching HIV from their boyfriends/girlfriends and not finding out until after the breakup. I would be wary of anyone who is that lackadaisical with their health in 2014. There is too much stuff going around for you to drop your defenses. WEAR A CONDOM AND SHE SHOULD GET ON BC.

    • I agree with your answer 100%

    • She's doesn't have much knowledge in sexual education (i've told her some basic stuff about pregnancy before which she didn't know), I went through my sex-ed classes during high school so I know the risks that come with it. It's just the pressure from her but I think I'll sit down and have a talk with her about it first before this because I want her to be as fully aware as I am about sex. I don't have wealth or a job (still studying), so I don't think that's her reason.

  • Two things. First tell her to go on the pill for safety because sperm can be in your pre-cum, thousands of them, and it only takes one for pregnancy.

    Second get yourselves tested for venereal diseases. It is usually done free and only takes a few days for the results.

    Sex without a condom feels better for boys than for girls as all of the girl's action takes place in the first couple of inches of her vagina. Sometimes I feel an ejaculation in me, but usually not, just the warm feeling afterward and, excuse the term, the dribbles out of me.

    My partner is blogging on the subject of sex without a condom on 10th February 2014. You can find his post by searching my full name and then looking for the relevant post.

    Angela Goodnight

  • There is no confusion what-so-ever. Do not do it unless you are ready to be a DADDY and PAY all your earnings for CHILD SUPPORT and DIAPERS and BABY BUGGIES and FORMULA etc. etc.

    Tell her nope, she better get a Depo shot or something.

    You will end up getting her prego and she will be all like oh now that I am preggo I don't want an abortion. Cry cry cry... why did you get me pregnant if you don't want to be the daddy too bad you are going to pay for this baby no matter what..

    END OF STORY buckaroo Condoms.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Man get her on the pill first. Tell her if she wants that to happen she needs to be on the pill. You need to be man and take charge of the situation. Do you know what they call people who don't use birth control? parents

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  • Sex without condom is the best and real experience. It is really good for both of you as some hormone transfer takes during it between both of you. It will increase intimacy between you. If you are afraid of getting her pregnant - ask her to go on pill, do it first time just a day or two before or after her period (Minimum chance of pregnancy). Do not pull out before ejaculating - it keeps you both unsatisfied and you will lost the real pleasure. I am on pill for more than two years.

    • Good grief. Crap. Don't take the chance and the hormone stuff is nonsense.

  • if you are putting it in and taking it out, no thrusting or anything, you should be fine. but if you are really worried get plan b.

    • Absolute rubbish. The slightest quantity of pre-cum can make her pregnant. DON'T DO IT. See my main answer. Really shocked at some of the nonsense answers to this question.

  • Use bc. It's better for a sexually active couple anyway.

  • She should start taking the birth control pill. Then throw the condoms away.

  • Get her on BC, it's probably the bast idea any way since she is sexually active.

  • Don't be stupid. Ask her to get on the pill, even putting your dick in her for a second could run some slight chance of getting her pregnant. Also, once you do, neither of you will want to stop, and before you know it, baby makes 3.

  • Well, what you could do is put it in her just after you get hard and then you could be in there for a little bit. But youve gotta learn to control it. Yes a little drop COULD make her pregnant, but its like a slim chance. She should know when her fertile days are and when she's not fertile. Just make sure that you have the will power to pull out tho...

    • Madness. Pre-cum often contains sperm.

    • I should have thought before I posted :P

  • If you are worried, have her go on birth control, or see if you can get Plan B.

  • Honestly I'm a mom of six, had all of them(2 sets of triplets) before I was 18. It was hard but honestly well worth it.mif you both arnt ready I wouldn't do it if I were you.mi was on because and we had a condom

  • If your not going to thrust don't do it. If you are going to thrust, get her on birth control.

  • I wouldn't do it with out her being on the pill. Accidents happen, and if you have never had sex without a condom and you may get carried away and then boom she's pregnant.

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