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Threesome? Experiences?

So I was half joking/half being serious the other day with my boyfriend, I had a dream that we had a threesome with some hot girl, and joked that we should try it sometime. Well now he REALLY wants to try it lol. Although I do think it could be fun it also makes me question a few things, which my boyfriend and I have talked about. What should the limits be? Where would I find some random girl that is strictly only for a threesome but isn't diseased? Will someone get jealous? Seems like dumb questions but I really am being serious and would like serious answers. So tell me your experience. and I don't want "ew why would you ever do that!" I just want people that have actually been there done that.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Threesomes (mff) are incredible! You'll come like you've never come before. Seriously. But, they can be tricky. You need to fond a girl, online (try swinger pages, etc.) or maybe an adult book store posting wall, that neither of you will meet again. If she is actively in this lifestyle then she will most likely be getting checked often and demand that of her partners. If that yields no results then call a high class, high dollar call girl. Hey, it's only once right? Meet at a neutral hotel, use only aliases.Establish rules from the get go and stick to them. Whatever makes EVERYONE comfortable, not just you, or him. Go into it 100%. Meaning, this is probably a once in a lifetime experience, let's go all out. Most IMPORTANT RULE, NO ONE BE AN IDIOT. WHICH means, he needs to be smart and mature enough to divide his attention and **** time evenly between the two of you. You need to not be an idiot and understand that Yes, he is going to be inside of another woman, she will possibly be pretty with a great body and Yes he WILL, WILL LOVE IT. If you can't handle that and will go psycho jealous then just pull the plug on this now. Decide BEFORE you meet her where his sperm is going. Sounds simple, but some women freak at the point when their man's come is splashing all over another woman's face. If everyone does avoid being stupid then this will be the greatest sex of your life probably. Enjoy!

  • There shouldn't be any real limits. When I was with my ex, she was Bi, we had fun with a couple of different ladies we knew. The only things that we asked was that there was not to be any hogging nor any jealousy. Everyone shared everyone. The one lady we had our fun with wasn't Bi, and proclaimed that she would never become Bi. So, we devised a plan to where the lady and I spent some time together in bed the first couple nights, and then the next night my ex joined us in bed, but still wasn't allowed to touch her. By the fourth night, we were all in bed again, this time I was massaging her between her legs, and she started getting into it as I crept closer to her pussy. I then opened her legs and told my ex to go for it, of which she did. The lady had a look of surprise on her face, but then I told her it was OK, and the more that my ex munched on her box, the more she started liking it, soon after that, she was a full fledged Bi.

    It was very fun and I miss it very much as I haven't found another Bi girl since then. That doesn't mean that I'm not looking though.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have had a threesome in 5 of my relationships and all of them lead to a break up. He would think it was OK to cheat after, they would leave me out of the threesome, I would get jealous, he would not listen to the boundaries we made and break them.

    but if you think you can do it then its up to how comfortable you are. are you OK seeing him fuck a girl? if not well then you can eat her out while he fucks you. or you can both such him. are you OK with him kissing her? keeping in contact with her after?

    i would find a random clean girl online and meet her beforehand make sure nothing feels to weird. doing it with a friend could get really weird.

    • Ok, to me it looks as though he didn't love you as much as he said he did. When I was with my ex at the time, (Yes, we did have it to where I bedded the girl first because of her not being Bi and said that she didn't think she could become Bi). Then after some of that tension was broken, she allowed my ex to be in the same bed, but only to allow her to watch us while having sex, then, the next night, she was asked to join, however, she had the T. V. on and chose to watch T. V. instead.

    • I even went to get off of our new found love and feed her my cock, however, our new lover wrapped her arms around my neck, pulled me back down and said "Fuck Me". Things went uphill after that night, as the next night was when I was massaging her and spread her legs and told my ex to go down on her. Our new lover was bitten after that and we had the very best sex from that day on, until her husband got out of jail and then she left like she came in, it broke our hearts.

    • it sounds more like you had something like palimony going on and not so much threesome

  • Do you trust him?

    Does he trust you?

    Can you two handle seeing, hearing, smelling, the other have sex with someone else?

    Can you separate sex and emotions?

    If any of those are no's, don't do it, you're not ready and will break up.

    If those are all yes.. or the relationship is more about fun and you already know it has a shelf life...

    Then go for it, its fun.

    Most of my xp's have been with people I know well. Generally speaking, it is best if the same sex partner picks the 3rd.. but he should have some input, or veto power, over who she is.

    • When I was with my ex, and we were in a 3some mood, with the other female, we were all three having sex at the same time, no one was taking turns, I had one on my cock while the other was riding my face. When I was going for gusto with one, one or the other was going for gusto with the other or both. And yes, it was very fun.

  • I've done the same joke to my boyfriend for a mff hreesome and he got very offended. He got cold towards me, he even told me "Is that what you want? To invite a third person to our relationship? How did you think I would take it? I guess, you don't know me that well".

    He is not into that at all.

    I think it's not a good idea to try it. If you are willing to break up with him, then sure, do it.

    But you will probably end up regretting it.

    • Obviously he has never had that kind of Fantasy, and he doesn't know what he's missing out on.

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  • You will regret it So much you can't even imagine. It sounds and looks awesome on paper, but in reality or should I say after reality, you will be ripping hair off your head. First of all, he will be a lot more intimate with her rather than you (FACT) why? because she is a fresh meat, he would do things to her that probably took you guys a while to get to (another fact) Even though he would include you in it, his concentration will be primary on her ( that's a simple reality check). In other words, you let him cheat and do hardcore things in front of you with other girl, while also tapping you for gratification. Plus, if you really believe he won't have sex with that girl behind your back again( while lying through his teeth), you simply lying to your self to the point where you actually start to believe in that lie.

    • Agreed!

  • Are you prepared for a sexual game and hell bent for a possibility of a heart break?

  • go for it, human life is short!

  • Hot.

  • So are you sure you want to see your boyfriend with another girl? Not too many girls do. I know I wouldn't want to watch that.

  • The sex yes is amazing. The long term consequences are not.

    • this is the best answer

    • Thank you Sammy

    • If my ex and I's lover's husband hadn't got out of jail as soon as he did, our 3some would've lasted longer. However, since he did get out of jail sooner than expected (And without complications from him) she went back to him.

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  • Are you prepared to watch your boyfriend having sex with another woman? I could not do it.

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