Multiple times I have gone on dates with girls only to find out that they don't want to be in a committed relationship but just want to hook up or be fuck buddies. If this only happened once or twice fine but this has happened repeatedly. The girl will want to bang me but not be my girlfriend. So as a matter of course I say no. If you won't commit to me I won't be physically intimate with you. This is more difficult sometimes than others but I've held firm. Any idea why this is? Am I attracted to the wrong type of girl? Am I not boyfriend material? Or is this mindset a lot more common these days. Thoughts?