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Not only would I prefer no head at all to having to use a condom, I'm also the same way about sex. I would honestly prefer no sex at all rather than having sex with a condom. That's part of the reason I went without sex from 1993 to 2004. I haven't used a condom since 1993. I haven't actually even tried oral sex with a condom, but I can't imagine it being good for either the guy or the girl. Condoms have a 'burned rubber' smell, and I would imagine the taste to be just awful.For me, the climax, and subsequent ejaculation, are a very important and natural part of the act of sexually pleasing one another. I usually tend to ejaculate quite a lot (when I read that the average male ejaculation is around 1/2 to one teaspoon I laughed out loud - I release more than that in my first spurt, usually, and then most of the time there's 4 or 5 more spurts - I make a mess) so if a girl is using her mouth on me, and I start to get close to an orgasm, I'll ask her if she wants me to finish in her mouth. If she nods her head or mumbles her consent (it's difficult to talk with a mouthful) I'll let her know that there might be a lot of it and then ask her if she's sure. Usually I'll take a break and back out of her mouth at this point so she can answer and I'll point it at her chest and let her know I could just do it there if she doesn't want it in her mouth. For me it doesn't matter all that much. I enjoy pulling out when I have intercourse, so I don't mind pulling out of a girl's mouth and releasing it all over her boobs, if that's what she prefers. And if she want's it in her mouth, I'm fine with that, too. But I could never imagine doing that with a condom. I probably wouldn't even be able to have an orgasm. I know it was difficult sometimes having one during intercourse while wearing a condom. -Hope that helped give you a guy's perspective.
Bareback head isn't risky unless you have an open sore or cut in your mouth.
not meaning to poke fun but what do we do, open up her mouth and check her like we do to a horse ;) :D
Thanks for that witty commentary, not! She should know. I sure do when it comes to me.
A "dome"? Never heard that expression before. Dome is just another slang term for head where I'm from...But anyway, I thought only hookers gave BJs with condoms, haha. But I guess if push came to above I'd probably take it. I wouldn't really be enthused if it was a girl I was seeing though. But if some rando girl insisted on it for a one-timer I'd deal with it. I'd think it was odd though.
I'm kind of 'meh' about blowjobs at times, but I've not had the best experiences of them. Although if it was a girl who is generally not going to bite or scrape her teeth off me I'd probably be happy enough to take it with a condom on. In fact bring on the condom to protect me from toothy blowjobs.
I've never understood the single guys issues with condoms. But then again, I'm in my 40's and never had an STD. Just wear a feckin rubber and sleep easy at night.Sure, it's different in a relationship where you trust your partner - but honestly it's not *that* big a difference in sensation.
Well, I can understand it when a female is afraid that she might get something by giving head, me, getting head either way is getting head. It might not be the same as a bareback head, but, it does still feel good.
I'd get head with a condom. I don't think it would feel as good though, so it'd probably take twice, or maybe three times as long. If she's willing to stay down there the whole time, then I have no problem with it.
I'd rather no head at all. The novelty of any sex act has gone for me now. And I wouldn't get enough pleasure out of dome head to make it worth my time, energy (I feel tired after orgasm) or effort (girls often need to direction in my experience).
I would probably opt for nothing just because it'd make me feel like she thought I was dirty or something... which isn't sexy...
What if it was clear it wasn't a worry about you.
How good is she?
fuck it. don't answer that. I likely would.
Either way is fine for me. But if the fear of STDs are issue, a condom is a safe choice. Perhaps it might be best for the woman to make the decision in this case...I'm happy either way.
is it true you have HIV? no head ether way for me sorry
I might have been exposed, waiting to take my test.
don't wait too long, if your positive that would really suck, and if your not positive than will you learn to be careful more? make better choices etc. I'm just looking out for you girl ;)
I am waiting until I can get an accurate result. If you go too soon, you can get a false positive.
ok keep me posted
err... false negative if you go too soon.
i understand what you meant lol
I'll go with a dome all the while thanks to fear of STDs but prefer it the other way round i.e. w/o one :D
+ more importantly it's safe for her too isn't it?
No head at all. If it was that big of a deal to her I'd need a pretty good explanation.
I've had dome head before, didn't care for it. Kept asking when I was going to come so I made her work extra hard and pushed her head around for putting on a condom, lol.
Kept we are talking no bj, or condom - I'll take the condom...but definitely not the ideal
I've put a condom on a man with my mouth before. Does that count?
not really.. lol
what's the point...it's like giving a hand job with a condom on
I would take no head in that situation.
Eww you have HIV?
Where have I ever said I have HIV?
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