Do you think having a ''fuck buddy'' is a bad idea?

[Anonymous]

I was a little bit drunk last night and me and this girl was texting being really flirty and inappropriate etc, she was saying she wants to fuck me.. She said ''we'll talk when you're sober'' after I sobered up we was texting again. I said I still want her to fuck me but some of the stuff I said last night I didn't mean. I think we both want nothing out of it apart from sex, do you think its a good idea or not? I've never had a fuck buddy before D:

[Anonymous]

It can be a bad idea, but not always necessarily so. Example, I had an ex girlfriend who became a friends with benefits thing for a while after we broke up. The sex itself was fantastic, but we ended up almost ruining our friendship as a result. Somehow on good terms now but that's another story entirely. Anyway, moral of the story is a lot of the time in a fwb/fuck buddy situation, feelings develop on one side or the other and someone winds up hurt. But if both of you can manage to keep things simple, or if both of you end up developing feelings for each other, it can work, at least for a little while.

[dweaver704]

Amen!

[Asker]

Me and my ex was still sleeping with eachother after we broke up but we agreed to stop because its killing us both inside.

[Anonymous]

I think if it's what you want to do, then you should do it. First time is always going to make you a bit nervous, but there's a first time for everything isn't there? So, try it out. If you like it, then you found something that you know you enjoy. If you don't like it, you know what to do if you're ever in this situation again in the future.

[CountryCutie1]

I defiantly think it can be, it's very hard to be sexually involved with some one and not develop feelings for them. I personally wouldn't recommend it.

[Jaye1331]

As long as you both are adults and want the same thing "fuck buddies" can be amazing things. If it were me I'd go for it.

[Asker]

I've never done anything like this before and what if I grow feelings for them? :/

[Arwens-Fire]

Bad idea.