The most likely answer is that, yes, he likes you. Of course he ALSO wants sex (duh, he's a guy), but he obviously respects you enough to wait for you to be comfortable.
Remember: it's the guys job to keep the pressure on and push for sex, and it's the girl's job to put on the brakes when he's going too fast and set the pace. Thus, it's normal for him to want things to progress, and it's normal for you to hold things back a bit if you aren't quite ready. But if he didn't actually like you, and only was interested in sex, it's unlikely that he'd give you all of the non-sexual attention and want to spend the night with you and spoon you.
Assuming he treats you well at other times too, I think there's no reason for you to be concerned.
Spooning doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. I've been spooning with a friend of mine about once a week for three weeks now, but there's nothing sexual going on.
If anything, the most we'd ever become (and I doubt it) would be friends with benefits, much like it sounds like your relationship currently is with this guy. Might want to talk with him about it. He clearly likes you to some extent, but one has to wonder if it's for a relationship of just FWB, which you'll only know if you talk to him about it. He might be wondering what you're thinking, too.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He is respecting your wish for not having sex, but is definitely hoping that by being the nice guy you'll eventually get there.
Doesn't mean he thinks you're easy based on evidence, but it does mean that he's attracted to you.
Unless you are huddled for warmth on the side of a mountain or something. Then its survival.
Yeah , if he was able to behave with you all night , he likes you.
@update , Obviously he likes you, if he didn't get any return pleasure and still spooned with you.
sounds like he likes you... or at the very least wants to be physically intimate with you, sex or no sex
gotta no more about the situation. are you two dating, friends, something in between? how long have you known each other? how much physical stuff have you done in the past? gonna need a lot more info to determine the relationship as opposed to just knowing how he feels based on cuddling and fingering you
He probably likes you. As to the second part in your update, you are making out a false either/or question. Men can in fact walk and chew gum at the same time. As difficult as this is for some to understand, we can see a woman as an object of sexual desire AND someone we really and truly love.
Yeah, the whole fingering part is a bit of a giveaway. I'm a spooner by nature though, if there's any spoonable person or inanimate object next to me when I'm sleeping I'm going to spoon the crap out of it.
What in the world does it mean to spoon somebody
He probably spooned you all night because he's really horny out of his mind and that being the closest he can come to sex he will probably take it. And see if he sticks around and wants to spend time with you and get to really know you and that will determine if he sees you as an object or not.
Yeah, he likes you.
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