Are there any clubs in us (particularly in ny) where there is top nudity but no lap dance etc. I think watching a nude dance or getting served by a topless waitress is one thing, lap dance is a different matter all together. And while I would enjoy the former I really don't want to get hustled into lap dances at all. But most clubs have super pushy strippers. Any exceptions? Or better still places where it is not on the menu at all?