For me: I don't have a fetish for it necessarily but my boyfriend and I do tickle each other, wrestle, work on grappling techniques, play spar and this often leads to sex. Just the idea of physical interaction gets us going.
For me it is about control. (not sure if you meant this in a sexual context) but I like mild BDSM, dirty talk, sex that involves trusting someone else completely, feeling a bit out of control of myself and in someone else's hands. My man's hands. Therefore tickling, although it seems COMPLETELY unrelated, involves you controlling her in a slight way where she feels connected to you, at your whim, ready for what YOU want of her. It makes her feel dirty in the best way.
So what I think she wants: control her, take the lead, be playful and youthful with her but still be assertive and spontaneous. Make her feel like she is there for you, but still give her hers ;)
I hope that helps!
Ah, excellent description! This does help alot, and I get the control thing now. Only thing is, from what I can tell without asking her directly. She likes to give and receive. So I guess take what you said and flip it for myself basically?
Yes totally. My boyfriend and I aren't always in the situation where I'm completely submissive and he's completely dominant, more of a 40 percent me 60 percent him. Sometimes it's more as I described but the control thing can be more subtle than "let me chain her up and do my own thing". She just wants to feel taken, if you know what I mean. Swept up in your assertiveness but that doesn't have to be ALL the time.
Ah I see, thanks alot, useful feedback. Never quite knew tickling could be a dominance kinda thing. Cool.
Why don't you just ask her? Basically a tickling fetish simply means that the act of tickling is a sexual turn-on. It may be mild to extreme and may involve being aroused by tickling you, getting tickled or both and may involve elements of bondage, submission, roleplay, etc. The only way to find out what HER tickling fetish entails is to ask her!
Yep! Just ask her!
She is the best person to ask- she knows what she wants a whole lot better than anyone here does.
It depends on weather the tickling fetish involves her being tickled or her tickling others or just watching others being tickled.
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Well, from what I can tell, looks like she likes tickling others.
Well than be prepared to have your self tickled, let her enjoy it, it's not like it's hurting any one.
Haha, gotcha. I mean I really am not into it. But I guess since its for her, ill suck it up. Thanks
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Locking her feet inbetween your legs so she can't move them and then tickle them, lightly and teasingly. See how she reacts. Then try a little more pressure and see what she likes more! Try feathers. I like to be tied down and be tickled all over by feathers and light touches. And try pinning her arms above her head and tickling her underarms. I found that restraint intensifies the tickling...
Ask her what she likes best!
Why not just ask her? I'm sure she knows what she wants better than any of us on here.
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