Sex with strippers?...What really happens in VIP rooms?

I have heard stories of people having sex with a stripper, getting head, hand jobs, serious touching (as in fingering...) on and on. Basically things that would most definitely be considered cheating if he were in a relationship. So do these things really happen for a little extra cash or at all? Men tell me your experiences and BE DETAILED AND SPECIFIC, please! Women: if anyone is a stripper or knows one and would know do the same! Thanks! I've always been curious.
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Well I have heard it's the trashier places, but either way it's not like they can have cameras in there to know...
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I didn't ask this question to see what your morals were. Why are you bashing users?
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  • It depends on the type of strip club you're getting the VIP at. I am very experienced in this so let me explain:

    First I have a lot of friends who are strippers. I am almost 30 now but when I was 18-20 a lot of my friends I grew up with and hung out with during my teenage years became strippers. I became party buddies with a lot of strippers and I know a lot about what goes on at strip clubs and in the VIP rooms. Not only that but I have been in many types of strip joints and have had a good number of VIP sessions. I pride myself in knowing which girls to choose because I'm semi-attractive and I only like to get VIP dances from girls who are attracted to me.

    MOST strippers won't touch the penis skin-to-skin. Most won't even touch it through your pants if you're not attractive. Old and/or ugly men give up their money just for attention and a butt on their lap, and a chance to touch a nice butt or a nice pair of tits because they NEVER get to otherwise. Strippers know this and won't typically go the extra mile with old and/or ugly men. There are some exceptions, and those exceptions include a lot of extra cash.

    However, being a young semi attractive guy, your luck will be a lot better. You don't have to dress nice or anything, just don't dress like trash and try to smell really good. Of course an energetic and funny personality goes a long way to get a stripper to be into you. YES, I know strippers are paid to act like they are into you, but if you're a young good lookin guy with some money in his pocket, chances are there will be strippers at the club who are REALLY attracted to you. Therefore, if you get a VIP from them you can be sure to get some extra treatment. This goes for the clubs who have private VIP rooms and allow girls to touch the guys.

    However, there are fancy clubs as well. A perfect example of this is Cheetah's in Windsor. Super hot ladies, but it's no contact, so nothing dirty will happen no matter what.

    • Hmmm I noticed how you keep talking about yourself... If you are as attractive as you say you are... why do you need to hang out at the strip club? If you are as attractive as you say then you won't need strip clubs to get laid, you can just meet women from the gym, or the supermarket.. and they are just as hot if not more. I know from experience.

  • I was in NJ for a concert and afterwards decided to go to a club. It wasn't 5 minutes before I had my first couch dance. A few minutes into the fun, the lady asks if I want a blowjob. She told me that it's 200 to go to the private room. I thought about it and declined because she was not all that pretty. 10 minutes later, I'm on the same couch. This time the lady is fine as hell. She also offers a blowjob. I took her up on the offer. For 200, we went to the vip room. First she Gave me a lap dance with lots of touching. I liked her breasts and fingered her. Then she excused herself to get a condom. She came back and proceeded to undo my pants. Then she used her mouth to apply the condom and went to town. She was an expert, humming and deep throating. After a few minutes, she came up for air and I seized the opportunity to, tell her to climb on. She told me that for 200 she would. I agreed. She then told me to bend her over. 5 minutes of doggie and I'm done. She cleaned me up and lead me to the atm. Knowing I'd already withdrawn 400 that evening, I mistyped my pin and got away without tipping. I saved 200 and have memories that will last a lifetime.

    • Haha you're full of shit.

    • My baby daddy and i went out to the bar for the first time we first went to one bar i ask him a qustion asking him just to see what he would say i said lets have a 3 sum than he asked if he wanted to go to the body shop before he went in i told him that i juat wanted to let you know that i love you well of couse he said it back. He was getting into watching the girls on the stage... i was getting upset than we went out for a smoke seen a friend talk to him my Hudson to be thought i was going to get with him and than he wanted to go for a lap dance with my 20$ in the back room he was in there for about 2 long songs he said nothing happen i juat touched her boobs and her ass... And its so hard to belive that because I've heard that they do blow jobs and stuff... He was in there long i dont think i belive him.. Should ii

    • @Caraxo you brought him there, what do you expect? You should have went in and enjoyed it too. Stop putting a box around your life go enjoy life do shit and keep it between you and your guy, n whoever the 3rd person is

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  • I'm a stripper and I am not the type that gets mad when they cum, in fact I encourage it! I am here to make them happy and to satisfy them. My club offers fully nude lap dances in a private tiny room where no one but the two of us are in. You are allowed to touch and I remove your shirt as well as undo your pants. Sometimes the cock will sneak out and touch my pussy as I grind and get cumed on. Doesn't bother me, what I want is for you to be happy and satisfied. It is my mission to make you cum. I love when you guys suck on my tities and my clit!!!
    I was doing a dance once and his cock came out of his pants, he didn't wear underwear that day and when I felt it come all the way out I asked him to put it back in. He did, however, it popped back out 5 minutes later and he asked me if he could please just leave it out, that it felt much better. He was so cute, he said you're only grinding on it, it's what you were doing while it was tucked away so it's the same just now it feels way better. All I wanted was for him to be happy and make sure he was satisfied. While sliding my pussy back and forth on his cock, it slipped in and he held me down on his cock for about 3 minutes and then said he was so sorry. I continued giving him his dance with his massive cock in me, he was so happy he recommended me to all of his friends and they all still come to see me and have fun with me. Yes his dances are extremely expensive, he doesn't mind because he gets what he wants, me satisfing him.
    I do this for hard working men who deserve to be happily satisfied... I love making men happy!!!

    • go get an education and a real job .. lol what are you gonna do at 50 ? LMAO

    • @benstone19 Yes an education is good. I have met strippers who go to college full or part time. Some will do extras because they need the money. A physics or Chem text book can cost $100/$200. 3 or 4 extras a week may pay for all her books, meals tution. I went to college, but the way business changes I was not doing the same type of job or working in the same industry when I retired. These young women have the same options as any college student. Who knows that female student who fucked you for $300 last weekend, may be your boss in 30 years. I contribute to aid females students with extras as often as I can. One young lady aways gives me a big hug when she sees me walk in. Every now and then she will give me a freebee along with my private dance. She knows that I will be there next time with cash for extras in the CR.

  • umm yea a lot of people think it can't happen but I have worked in two different clubs (not nasty hole in the walls) and it happens. I have had sex with I think 7 guys in the vip or couch. Every night there is at least 10 guys that ask me that question and this is what I tell them take the price of the vip and triple it and you will get your answer. of course I don't f*** dirty old men I get enough from them from regular lapdances. but a real hot young guy with the money and its a sure thing. the only thing is that our guys (bouncers) have to check up by law or whatever every so often so if they catch us we have to give them half of the money. its a little game we have going on kinda. so to answer your question, yes most of us do it for enough money. think about it. vip is 200 at my club so that's 600 plus the 200 initial amount.

    • So you're a prostitute?

    • LOLOLOL

    • I'd never pay for sex.....I have no respect for strippers, prostitutes or porn stars. They have no self respect.

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  • yes sh*t like this does go on, IF you get a dirty ass stripper that will do anything for money, which is 90% of them in low end clubs, now go to a high end club and not one stripper will let you touch her, that's what the whores of the street corner are for

    • 100% agreed.

  • Sadly no, nothing happens in the VIP room in this country other than the guy paying even more money than he's already paying (I f***ing hate strip clubs). Though the same is not true in other countries. I don't know how the girls would know, but generally, nothing happens in the back room.

    • You were wrong. I've been a dancer for six years. Two of them in Atlanta. You can get anything you want for a price. The VIP rooms that's totally secluded and dark you offer enough money you get what you want. You just never offered enough money to the girls. That is a total misconception regarding VIP rooms in strip clubs. You want sex – you pay

    • Yeah, your wrong, your blanketing the entire country for your few experiances at some clubs. All strip clubs in Vegas except for one allow for touching. Teasers in MT allows for basically everything once you get into their super private Lair. Other clubs around the country do the same. Anyway, you need to get out more if you think all strip clubs are the same.

  • um. yes stuff happens.

    A guy goes to a strip club for a reason.

    He gets the full nasty if you know what I mean if he's willing to pay for it.

    • No, that practically never happens. That happens one and the girl gets caught or found out and the entire joint can le its license. Only in trashy, non-licensed places will crap like that happen, and even then rarely. Most strippers are not prostitutes.

    • @Techan I disagree with you. The word prostitute is of course very accurate by some people standards. My only answer is everybody's got their price. I would fuck an elephant for the right price. I don't know what that price is. Trust me is very high. Everyone is a prostitute so therefore the word prostitute is so non-definitive as to be a useless descriptive noun

  • I worked at a high class club in Atlanta Georgia for 2 years. The opinion of the woman above is correct. What goes on in the VIP room depends on the specific club and the amount of money you are willing to spend. Getting into the VIP room is $150-$200 for about 20 minutes. Anything else other than nude dancing is up to the dancer and the guy involved. To make a long story short, if you have enough money you can get anything you want.. If a guy wants a VIP room for longer than the initial price, then you know instinctively that he wants more than just a dance.

    • Which one? I applied at a couple

  • Great question. I'm 20 and have never been to one, but I am having fun reading all of these stories.

  • naaa, men tell the stories to pump their egos (chest-thumping)

    women who work at strip clubs are there for show, and lap dances, but there is strict "no skin on skin" policies out there. the club owners are not about to jeopardize the Lic.

    the only exception to that rule is if there are corrupt cops or city workers on the take.

  • I have not had any VIP experience (come on I live in salt Lake City, and the legal brothels in Nevada are less then 2 hours away) but I do have a friend who was a dancer at a club in New Orleans and she tells stories, and I suppose it comes down to the club. And how much you are willing to "tip". The truth is that anything can be had, but at what price. I've certainly paid for "special favors" in a club in San Francisco and that was to watch a girl pee on another girl (cost about $300.00 in 1993). I honestly think that if you had the money the sky's the limit.

  • Only been to a strip club 3 times. Each for bachelor parties. The last time was right before covid I had an aggressive stripper take it further than I was comfortable with lol. In the moment I realized this is better left to porn. I was amazed how far she took a lap dance in front of others and I literally started laughing and asked her to stop.

  • It really depends on the strip club. Big differences. Between the ones in Detroit and kansas city mo. If you're that worried look on a strip club review site, it will tell you specifically if extra shit goes down at a club. I will say extras are extremely uncommon though

  • Never been to a strip club and if i did i wouldn't tell you.

  • I f***ed a stripper in the VIP room last weekend

  • The VIP rooms at the club allure, chicago are really small but nice. They have really nice furniture, a private bar, and flat screen tv's. Basically, it depends on the girl, but I have some friends who work there who say you can get anything you want for the right money. I don't know about other clubs, but the cluballurechicago
    has another area that's not discussed that's called the Penthouse. That's where the magic happens. Know more details about this club here: cluballurechicago. com

    • The way I look at it, is that I paid to go in the back room not for sex. If law enforcement were to catch me I would say that I never solicited for sex, it just happened, and I had no original intention on paying for sex at all. Also, it helps to know the laws. In Montana, it went in front of our supreme court what the definition of paying for sex is and a form of vaginal penetration has to be involved. That means handjobs and blowjobs are not considered paying for sex and are perfectly legal.

  • In my 10 years of going to strip clubs, only once have i ever gotten head and she rode my cock, Fingering happens pretty often though however.

  • My baby daddy and i went out to the bar for the first time we first went to one bar i ask him a qustion asking him just to see what he would say i said lets have a 3 sum than he asked if he wanted to go to the body shop before he went in i told him that i juat wanted to let you know that i love you well of couse he said it back.
    He was getting into watching the girls on the stage... i was getting upset than we went out for a smoke seen a friend talk to him my Hudson to be thought i was going to get with him and than he wanted to go for a lap dance with my 20$ in the back room he was in there for about 2 long songs he said nothing happen i juat touched her boobs and her ass...
    And its so hard to belive that because I've heard that they do blow jobs and stuff... He was in there long i dont think i belive him.. Should ii

  • When I went to Ensenada (downtown area) I had enough time to branch off from my family and did sum independent exploring. I ran into this guy that told me about the strip club with the big black ball outside. I then ran into another guy who asked me as I walking in the direction of the strip club if I was attending I said yea and he lead me inside I didn't even get id'd and I opened the curtain and was quickly approached by a Latina/Mexican women who asked me "you want sex?" lmao realize I am only 19 and I got a baby face and sure enough I had a awesome time only spending about 45 bucks. I got to get real freaky with two women. The first one gave me a dance way over the time limit Becuz I gave her a extra 20 and she gave me a alright lap dance but I got to dry hump her pretty rough. And squeez her tits I even sucked on them. She also stroked my bare dick trying to get me to spend more money.. noteThis was my first time ever in a strip club... I realized she wasn't that hot and moved on to a more attractive girl and sure enough the same scenario I got a dance. And I had her bouncing on my dick with clothes on. I took my pants off and humped her she was very hot. Highly recommend that joint if your young. I had a awesome time for less then 100$

    • My baby daddy and i went out to the bar for the first time we first went to one bar i ask him a qustion asking him just to see what he would say i said lets have a 3 sum than he asked if he wanted to go to the body shop before he went in i told him that i juat wanted to let you know that i love you well of couse he said it back. He was getting into watching the girls on the stage... i was getting upset than we went out for a smoke seen a friend talk to him my Hudson to be thought i was going to get with him and than he wanted to go for a lap dance with my 20$ in the back room he was in there for about 2 long songs he said nothing happen i juat touched her boobs and her ass... And its so hard to belive that because I've heard that they do blow jobs and stuff... He was in there long i dont think i belive him.. Should ii

    • @Caraxo why tf are you commenting on everyone's post with your illiterate writing? Your "baby daddy" cheats on you GET OVER It!

  • Yes. it happens. There is a club I will go to about once a month during the day, all nude. The club is not busy but they aways have 5 or 6 dancers available, 2 or 3 dancing , the others relaxing or talking to the men. Maybe 8 customers. This particular club has a large dance floor with tall chairs along the edge. It puts the dance floor just above waist high. The dancers will come to you and ask if you want a stage dance, nothing extra above a stage tip. I always say yes and I always tip several bucks. I talk to the ladies as they dance, complement them on something costume, great legs , nice ass or tits, beautiful smile or eyes. I will tip them early in the dance. A bad dancer will leave at the point. waste no more time on her. Other dancers will sit on the edge of the stage, get close and press their tits in your face. Some while pressing their tits in your face will also reach down between your legs and rub your hard penis through your pants. See PART 2

  • You’re a slut for sure if you’re fucking a married man. Have you no blatant disregard for their wife and family? If you get naked for a living you are just easy. Hopeless. Dirty. You think you’ll ever find a good man like that? What a waste I say. Co er the fuck up and go get a real job! Money for tits! Haha. Despicable!

  • ug, my husband of 15 years visited a strip joint and had sex with the stripper in the back room. I can't fault her, my husband sought her out, gave her money, spent the evening with her. At ant point he could have stopped. He confessed. Its been 8 years and I still cry over his betrayal. I stayed, I'm not sure it was the best idea. An online therapist said it best "he blew the doors off your relationship." I can't trust. I'm Mrs. Pense and I hate it.

  • I'm a regular at a club around the corner and just had sex with a stripper for $80 the other night, I know most of the people there, but it wasn't even in VIP, didn't have to tip.

  • Nothing has ever happened to me in a VIP room.
    However, massage parlors have resulted in anything I want, with a massage after!

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