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Almost never. You may be falling for him, but chances are he still feels exactly the way he felt at the beginning (which was exactly how you presumably felt in the beginning), which is: that this is just sex for fun, and nothing more.You might want to read my article: link
I fell for my friends with benefits too. He knew that I liked him. He just wasn't ready for a relationship yet. We continued as friends with benefits for a while, then I asked him if he wanted to give us a try. He said sure. We lasted like 2 weeks and he called it quits. He said he just couldn't make himself like me. He couldn't make himself like me? Why force it? If he didn't want a relationship with me, he just should've said so. Was he afraid of losing a friends with benefits ? Probably so. But don't play with my feelings like that.
It's possible...but I would tread extremely carefully...try to get him to indicate what he feels first...don't keep going with it either though if you feel that way...if he doesn't feel the same about you break it off and move on before you get yourself hurt
If the boundaries where set when you started the whole benefit deal, then it will be hard for him to move to the next level. however, you can tell him how you starting to feel attached and either stop completely or hope he is feeling the same way and start a real relationship. I hope he has nobody at the moment.
Sometimes, but that's really the problem of friends with benefits.You're not supposed to fall for the other person. Unfortunately, one usually does. I'd suggest talking to him about it. Try to not get your heart broken though if he isn't interested. After all, if you're solidly fwb, then that means you both knew what this was and had an understanding that it was nothing more.
No...dont believe what you see in the movies.This is precisely the danger in having an friends with benefits relationship. Sometimes in the end,someone loses.
I'm in the same situation right now. I know that, even though I really want us to be in a relationship, it will never happen. In the beginning it was just for fun, and it still is, but now I have feelings for him. He knows and he plays with them every time he wants to have sex. Please take my advice and try to end it with him. I know it will be hard but if you don't want to have your heart completely broken try to turn your relationship with him back into just friends
of course! I avoid friends with benefits for that same exact reason
yes...once in a while.
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