When a guy fingers you, does it mean he wants to have sex?

Why do guys finger you? Because it turns him on or does he want to turn you on or for his own pleasure?
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  • He definitely wants to do something sexual with you. Does he want to have sex (screw)? That is likely, though some guys who are technically virgins and not ready for intercourse will do lots of other things.

    Does he do it to please you? Probably. The desire to give pleasure to someone you are attracted to is very strong. Whether or not things progress to having sex, he wants to make you feel good.

    His own pleasure? Oh yeah! There is a heck of a lot of pleasure for a guy just in the sexual touches. Feeling the different sensations of touching different parts, feeling the moisture, etc. And getting to smell you on his fingers after! And seeing you getting turned on and even having an orgasm is very erotic to a guy.

  • It is a bit of both, in the sense that if my partner is letting me touch her there and she is enjoying it, then her excitement in turn excites me, which I then put back into my activity, sort of like sexual recycling in that none of the sexual energy is wasted or lost, odds are that if I can continue to excite her then she will want to have sex too. The more she enjoys what I'm doing the more I enjoy it.

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  • It's for all of those reasons: guys finger girls because it turns them on, and because it turns the girl on (which turns many guys on), and because he wants intercourse.

    All of the above!

  • Well, unless his fingers are iching and he has no other place to put them in lol then YES, he does wants to have a hard, deep, eye intimate sex with you lol

  • DUH

    yes

  • The two are not mutually exclusive and are actually synergistic.

    See a girl turned on is a turn-on.

    Fingering her turns her on, and that makes you want to have sex with her.

  • Oh yes I think so, can you squirt if he fingers your g spot really fast up and down, how about you finger yourself in front of him, I know if my Mrs did that I would be fucking well ready to go for a ride. mmm yup.

  • Of course he wants sex...he is a guy!

  • He isn't fingering you because he wants you to bake him some cookies.

  • I get turned on when I finger a girl, although I much prefer to go down on her.

    For me, it's about giving her pleasure and getting her wet... And making sure she is having fun.

  • Both, and Yes, we ALWAYS want to have sex!

  • Both for his pleasure and to turn you on. And yes, if he is fingering you, it definitely means he wants to have sex.

  • I have fingered girls I had the intention to have sex with. Why? It's foreplay.

    I have fingered girls I had no intention at all to have sex with. Why? It feels good to make a girl come, even if I had reasons to keep my John Tomas holstered. (like the girl stating she wanted to keep her V-card OR having no condoms, OR having no place or no time to do it properly OR not having 100% confidence in her OR not wanting a relationship with her.)

  • yess

  • Duh! YES!

  • good question I don't really know why,... it just feels amazing to touch and finger that part of a girl and I guess guys try to pleasure a girl in a way guys can understand since guys are sexual beings unlike girls are, and yes it means the guy wants sex and I guess instinctively tries to turn a girl on, again in a way a guy can understand but its also to explore her

  • Yes, and yes I get turned on by pleasuring a woman.

  • Depends on the guy and the mood.

    Some guys like to give more (unselfish) and some guys like to receive more (selfish) naturally.

    The guys that like to give, love the challenge of trying to get girls to orgasm.

    The guys that are fingering you to turn you on need to try harder and need more sex education. They keep ignoring the tits and the neck to play with at the same time.

  • Not necessarily. Sure he gets turned on. That's just natural. But he might not demand sex after that. I don't know if I'm ready to go all the way. So I might not try to get her to have sex. But I would be very happy to give her pleasure through fingering and oral. I want to make my girl feel good and happy.

  • Are young people really this useless where a question like this has to be asked? "A guy is doing a sexual act with me... does that mean he wants to have sex with me?"

    • I was thinking the same thing lol