I had sex with a guy & now my ex is not talking to me. Will he forgive me eventually?

My ex broke up with me 6 years ago because I saw naked pics of a girl in his email & he said he was tired of me snooping in his things. He goes back & fourth from my home to his hometown in northern indiana. I continued to only date him for 4 years because I was waiting for him. He would tell me that he was not trying to lead me on and he one day would be with me. Eventually I got tired of it and started messing around with someone else, nothing serious. I didn't tell my ex because I don't feel like it was any of his business since he broke up with me & all of his female friends like him & he has talked sexual to all of them, but let him tell it he never slept with them, which I know its bs. So he found out about me sleeping with the other guy, said I cheated on him & hasn't talked to me in 2 months. He said im a hoe but the two men are the only men I have slept with since high school and turning 27 next month. Do u think my ex will eventually call me again?
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  • Your relationship with him should have ended when you saw the naked pictures. Whether you consider it cheating or not, that in combination with his behaviour around his female friends should be enough reason to cease your relationship with him. When he got angry with you about snooping in his things he was trying to divert the topic to you being nosy and away from him possibly cheating.

    And from what I gather he broke up with you because he cheated and then he got mad at you for trying to move on.

    No offence but he sounds like a dick who has issues and you could definitely do better.

    As for your question, why would you want him to call you again? Do you want to be friends with this guy knowing that he was a dick to you? Or do you have difficulty letting go of him?

  • Let's get something straight. This guy kept you waiting for him for years because he kept moving. Then he dumps you and calls you a slut for sleeping with another man. Just think that through a bit.
    You weren't even with him when you slept with that other guy so there's no way in hell that you were cheating on him. And it's not his business whether or not you're sleeping with other men.
    Why do you want him to forgive you when he was the one that did something wrong? You're blaming yourself for no reason. He was the one who did wrong, not you. Just move on from him because he doesn't deserve you.

  • I'm sorry, love, but the guy is a piece of shit. Stop worrying about someone, who doesn't deserve you.
    Move on and find someone, who actually a decent human being.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He's your ex. Why are you even talking to him? Unless you've got a kid, exes belong in the past. If he doesn't want to talk to you, good riddance.

  • Why are you worried about what your ex thinks to begin with?

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  • I don't think you should want him to call you. He's not worth your time find someone new that deserves you

  • Yes, I do think your ex will eventually call you again - IF you make no efforts to see or talk to him. That said, I don't think you should take his call. Good riddance.