1. It's a matter of opinion and perception my friend.
2. The way you think is how most people of either gender would
3. I see it more as either / or matter of principles or ego
4. If you love her enough in the true sense, you'll see beyond all these things
5. Not all people especially women are comfortable discussing their pasts
6. Everybody and everything changes over time, she 'may' have too OR she may have to hide her true fantasies, orientation, feelings etc thanks to how the 'society' thinks
7. Since you say 'you found out' it indicates that she was not the one who told you
8. Either you didn't make her comfortable enough or she just doesn't want to talk about it
9. She could still be a changed woman or hides it thanks to the way people including you think
10. If it were me, I'd ensure she's comfortable enough to tell me whatever she wants to. BUT I've had an experience of knowing things, telling my gf at that point of time that I know and how I know but she still wanted to deny it while all her friends including her sister knew & accepted that I am a very liberal character a basic that makes women want me (this was way back in my teens too not recent). This girl crossed a point (not in sleeping around but by displaying insecurity & acting whimsically based on it) which triggered my breaking up.
11. I think you should ask her but not in an accusing manner.
12. Relationship is based on understanding and trust which goes both ways.
13. I won't say I'm sorry for you - yet
Good luck :) I'm sure she's an awesome woman, try opening up and opening her up, should work :)
NOTHING says that a woman who's sexually liberated isn't innocent :)
You'll have to decide what to do from this point in your life. Your story is fairly typical. Let me guess, she's rather conservative in the bedroom with you.
For the most part yes
That's not the least bit surprising. Well your choices are either to deal with it or break up at this point. Make sure she isn't cheating on you now, as well.
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