Worried about going to nude beach with friends because of size.?

[malakkaman]

This past summer I was invited to spend a week at a friend's house he rents each July in Mykonos. It will be my friend Luke, his wife Anna and one of her girlfriends. Most people would be ecstatic but as the months go by I am becoming a nervous wreck. The problem is it that Luke and Anna are basically nudists. They have been gushing over how free the feel when they are at the beach with nothing on and how much I am going to love it. They showed me dozens of pictures of them from this past summer at the beach and by their pool. In almost all of them they were both naked with many other naked people around. Luke and Anna both are in great shape as am I. I workout and diet and have a fledgling six pack but I am panicking about being nude in front of them. The problem is that I am below average both when flaccid and erect. To make matters worse Luke is greatly above average [I saw the pictures and he dwarfs me]. Also when I looked at the pictures all of the men were easily bigger than I. So I am afraid of being humiliated. I know that no one will laugh but I can imagine what they will think. I also know that they are trying to hook me up with Anna friend as we both just got divorced. From what they have said she sounds like a great catch but if we're doing the nude thing she'll probably just give me the no way before I even get to know her. I mean how can a woman see a guy who is smaller than average [about 1.5" flaccid and 5" erect] standing next to a guy that looks to be more than 6" flaccid [who knows how big it gets hard] and not be disappointed?

[islands7]

OK, all good first impressions to worry over but that's NOT the end of the story, bud.
As the joke goes, a prostitute undressed her john to reveal a very small d**k - thus she remarked, just who do you think you're going to satisfy with that? Smiling, he said - ME!
1. YOU will get to enjoy the sensual side of ocean, sand, sun and freedom - don't miss this with a safe, experienced group that has offered and can show you more fun than solo
2. THEY will be more absorbed in what YOU think of their nakedness... proof of this is your own concerns. be nice about their flaws, everyone has them!
3. HOOK up or not may/not happen so what? SO long as no strings attached, everyone having fun, no pregnancy, where's the pressure?
4. Sure gals love size but that's NOT what they marry nor worship - it's how they are treated, feeling safe and being honored - THEN they get horny for you, with whatever you've got. They adapt to what's at hand.
5. Stay home and always regret missing this the rest of your life? Besides, your not getting married to it.

[arthurdent]

Best thing for you to do, in my opinion, is stand tall and not worry about it. I've been in clothing optional places before, and my experience is that it ain't about looks. Yes, just like elsewhere people notice someone who is attractive. As far as size is concerned, I don't think people can tell anything when you are flacid anyway. I'm average, but when flaccid an inch and a half might be twice my size, depending on the weather, the breeze, time of day, position of the moon, whatever. You're in good shape. Just stand proud, confident, and enjoy yourself.

[samhradh_leannan]

People come in all shapes and sizes, and others will probably not be paying attention to any flaws/insecurities you may have as much as you think they will be. And as for the idea of hooking up with the friend, you never could have known whether that would end up happening anyway. Just because you are both single and going on a trip together doesn't automatically mean that either of you will be interested in the other- penises aside.

But if you aren't comfortable with being nude in public, there's a simple solution- don't be. It's not for everyone, and that's okay. Stick with your own comfort level and do what feels right for you. You can keep a swimsuit on or whatever at the beach- you won't be the only person there who does. Just relax and do what you're comfortable with. No mature, respectful person will give you a hard time about your choice one way or the other.

[eurochick]

I have been to a number of nude beaches in Europe and I have seen a range of cock sizes, from very small to large. While I am a girl, I don't think most nudists care too much about other people's bodies. Maybe if you are concerned, get yourself a pair of speedos as not everybody is naked at the nude beach and at least if you wear those, you are showing off a bit more skin than normal.

[Georgie223344]

Dont care about what other people think i know thats hard for some people including me but try not to worry to much ok :)

[Georgie223344]

And if you dont wanna go naked dont no one is MAKING you go naked

[Georgie223344]

Thanks for making mine most helpful and im not saying the others are crap im just saying you dont need to care what other people think about you when your there

[Eiffelgirl21]

LOL first of all you are not small within the least. More like perfect size.

Second of all, if you are uncomfortable then don't go nude!

And, thirdly, I would RUN from that dude with 6" flaccid! haha

[malakkaman]

Thanks - That makes me feel better!

[Eiffelgirl21]

It is the truth! :-)

[bingobango]

Shave your pubes, it'll at least make it look bigger.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Dont be sad there are a lot of really fat and old people at nude beaches as well so i wouldn't worry about that part. And Don't worry because most people know that the penis gets bigger when it is hard.

[ArabianPwincess197]

I'd never go to one - all I have is for one man's eyes only.

[Eiffelgirl21]

I agree with this. Me too.

[cool-man]

very nice

[ArabianPwincess197]

@EiffelGirl21 @Cool-man thank you

[Dallsimo]

There are various dick sizes and shapes for various women taste... ;) I'm not the biggest, but i'm gifted with a beautiful dick! Who knows what women will think of your cock... you might be the favorite in the pool lol

[axemel]

she should go you will be able to try something new maybe you will love being nude

[Anonymous]

"just got divorced"
Get out of your comfort zone and embrace the adventure. If you don't go, you'll regret it.
If you went and find you don't match up, who cares? It might actually be a confidence booster. They'll be too busy checking out your abs. Hopefully it all worked out.

[Anonymous]

I feel for you. Personally I could never go nude with a group of people.

[Anonymous]

Just because they're nude doesn't mean you have to be too. If you aren't comfortable being naked then just wear swim trunks or shorts. I don't think it'll be a big deal.

[Anonymous]

Don't go then?

Yes you will be judged as I do go to nude beaches often and we do gawk at those with less than perfect bodies.