Toughts on & tips for face fucking?

[Anonymous]

Do you like it? Why or why not? What positions work best and what's the easiest way to avoid him hitting your teeth?

[Anonymous]

I like it, but I've never enjoyed it to its fullest because I'm conscious that she might get hurt. The best position is you lying on your back in the bed, with your head out of the mattress and your mouth open. Like this: 4.bp.blogspot.com/.../jack+hammer. jpg

A bit of advice: make sure you know and trust each other. It's a very delicate position and you have to trust each other COMPLETELY. It's not for everybody, just for experienced couples with a strong connection.

[nicenthic]

Love facefucking. Especially when I am about to cum. I put her on the edge of the bed, slide it all the way down her throat and shoot straight into her stomach. She doesn't even need to taste it.

[Daph81]

No, I won't allow a guy to degrade me like that.

[Asker]

It's not degrading! You're crazy. Things are only degrading if you let them be. Two adults in love whom are doing something consensual isn't degrading.

[Daph81]

To me it is.

[Asker]

Well I sit on his face and hump it when he tongue fucks me so that is basically the same thing so I don't think so!

[Daph81]

see, I don't do that either. Besides, your question was "Do you like it? why or why not?", so why are you making this a argument?

[Asker]

I'm not saying in in relevance to my question. I'm just letting you know that it's totally not degrading.

[Daph81]

For you it's not, for me it is.

[Asker]

Fair enough.

[Anonymous]

Interesting. I think face-fucking is wonderful. Just seeing that dick slide down her throat continuously is amazing.

[Anonymous]

As a guy, I find it very demeaning. Not a fan.

[Asker]

Don't think so. I sit on his face and hump it while he tongue fucks me. It's the equivalent.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't find sex that causes choking to be a very loving thing, so I don't participate that way.

[Asker]

It doesn't cause choking unless you make it.

[Opinion Owner]

If it's like the two other guys described as forcing your penis down her throat, I don't see how that isn't demeaning. You may like it, and you may consent to it, but that doesn't make it not demeaning.

[Asker]

I really don't think it's demeaning. No more so than any other type of sex.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't see how it glorifies you as a woman. Do you think I should jam my penis into my partner's mouth?

[Asker]

Sex isn't about glorifying your woman. & No one said anything about jamming.

[Opinion Owner]

Then what is it about? Demeaning her (or if you want to use different terms, using her as opposed to honoring her)? Or is it just getting what I want and not paying attention to her needs and desires?

[Asker]

It's about pleasuring each other. That it. No one should be getting glorified or demeaned.

[Opinion Owner]

So then why do you think a guy grabbing his girl's head and forcing himself in and out of her throat is not demeaning, as opposed to just oral? Do you see how that could be pretty one sided? I don't want to get off at the cost of her feeling degraded and used. Oral, both are participating. Me grabbing her head and shoving myself in and out of her throat, she doesn't have to be a part of that. Just open wide and I'll tell you when it's over.

[Asker]

You're assuming it has to be like it is in p*rn. Which isn't always true. He lays back on the bed and I kneel between his legs and he thrusts his hips up and down with me guiding his penis. There's none of him throwing my head around or mashing my brains out with his penis. It's done in a very loving way. She shouldn't feel degraded or you're doing it wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe it would help your case if you describe your definition in the question, rather than put a term with negative connotations in the question and not describe what you mean.

[Asker]

What else would you call it? Term or not it's the same thing.

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say call it something else, I said define it. And maybe don't get so defensive/offended when people disagree with you.

[Asker]

I'm not I just feel sorry who write everything off before they've tried it.

[Opinion Owner]

Feel sorry for me if you like, but I'm not going to lose sleep because I chose not to shove my member into someplace I didn't care for it to go in the first place. I never put it into a cherry pie, either. I'm okay with that.