How to moan quietly/muffle your moan?

[Anonymous]

So, my boyfriend & I have been together for a little while now, and we've been debating on whether or not to have sex at this particular time. Our main complication is he lives with his parents, and the only time we ever get an opportunity is there; the last thing we want is for them to overhear. My main problem is the fact of, I'm as loud as a typical girl whom has only slept with one guy. Girls; I'm curious upon ways you've moaned quieter. Guys; have there been ways you've muffled the girls you were sleeping withs' moaning? Also for guys, have you ever used fire & ice condoms; what were your opinion on them? (only one we have currently. I've heard mixed opinions so far.)

[Metal89]

I didn't know girls moan/scream loud when they've only been with one guy? That's an interesting statement... Also, why is it that his parents place is the only place you can have sex. Why not your place, or if you even want to be a little risque, a public place. Why does it HAVE to be his parents house? Is it like a law or something... (these are all rhetorical questions)

The only way to keep your moan down would probably be to not breathe as deeply. I'm a clarinet player. When I play loudly, I'm pushing the air through the instrument faster and that allows me to not only play louder but also to get the high notes out better. So try slowing your breath down. If this doesn't work, I really suggest finding a new place to have sex. Why should you have to keep your moaning down just to have sex? (rhetorical)

[Asker]

Because my place is not an option, my mom keeps us downstairs. I'm a clarinet player as well! So thank you for that example, I'll try that out c:

[Metal89]

Best instrument ever, right? And how is that any different than his parents?

[Asker]

I wanted to play trumpet actually, but I couldn't do mouth buzzing; actually thinking about switching to bass clarinet soon. And they allow us to be alone.

[Metal89]

I play bass clarinet as well. I actually originally wanted to play flute, I couldn't whistle to save my life when I tried out instruments, now I can

[Asker]

Hahaha, I've always hated the flute because I can't stand how high pitched it goes xD

[baseballbandfreak27]

fire and ice condoms are kind of weird I like them and hate them at the same time. as for muffling your moans... short of him putting his hand over your mouth (which can me hot) I have no clue

[Asker]

I've heard many guys either say they love them or they hate them; he's scared to try it since it would be his first time and he doesn't want it to be where he hates his first time xD. That was the only thing I could really think of (which turns me on more) other than placing my mouth against him so it doesn't go to loud. Thanks for your input!

[baseballbandfreak27]

if he wants it to be special, then get a nice hotel room

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I sneakily had sex at my parents house one night, the bed was a squeaker so if thats an issue its easier to make it quieter if you're on top. As to controlling the moans, i managed alright, but sometimes its just too intense and if you let a little moan out, its never really as loud as you think. I know what you mean though its hard to control, you just want to let it out but its a mind over matter thing, you can bite your lip or bite onto something if you really need to.

[Jennifer2048]

It is very hard to control, but you just have to concentrate. It takes away somewhat of the sexual intensity but it is better than nothing. One way I had pretty good luck with is let him do you doggie style. Rest your head down on a pillow and softly moan and whimper into it. Not perfect but it works pretty good.

[Anonymous]

Close your mouth, put a pillow over your face if you have to, they do a good job of muffling sound... just force yourself to be quieter, it's not terribly hard.

[nicenthic]

I just push her head down into the pillow and choke her so she shuts up while pulling her hair. Women love that.

[Anonymous]

Are you going to use Gags?

[Anonymous]

yes put your head on a pillow that works :p

[Anonymous]

Maybe he could put his hand over your mouth?