Do guys like dry humping? Or do they find it frustrating?

[Anonymous]

I've been hooking up with this guy, and I've made it clear that i won't go further than dry humping (with underwear on) at the moment... so while dry humping me he gets really into it (sounds, hard, etc) and a couple of times he came in his boxers too, but i feel like it's not enjoyable for him as is not leading anywhere.. so do guys like dry humping? or they find it annoying as it just leads to blueballs/creaming their pants?

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy and the girl. If I'm dry humping some girl I really just wanna have sex with then it's frustrating. But I can grind and dry hump with some girls for hours without any intentions of moving further just cause I like them that much. They're generally the girls I end up wanting to date long term. Make dry humping fun and not just bodies wiggling on top of each other and your good. But honestly do what feels good for you. If you want to stay at just dry humping then stay there. If he gets mad and walks away things will be fine. You'll eventually get over it and find someone new. But I will say I've had some painful dry humping experiences. And sometimes a nice hand job is really just great. Just let things escalate at your own pace.

[nicenthic]

I find it frustrating as hell so if I am going to be dry humping, I better be banging her in the next few minutes, even if it has to be on the dance floor.

[kaylaS91]

If you won't take it any further than that, I'd imagine the guy could find it a bit frustrating as it will definitely get him aroused yet not really allow him to finish. For me, I enjoy doing that as a type of fore-play and just get my guy all worked up. That's all in good fun and only when I know we're going to be having sex within a few minutes though.

[kyco98765]

Its extremely frustrating I'm assuming. I get that you dont want to go any farther, but at least give the poor guy head or something

[SomeGuy37]

Don't just give guys that excuse! You turn us on, and that is ALL our responsibility!! You are not obligated to give a guy an orgasm, if you turn him on!! It can be frustrating, but if I guy REALLY likes a girl, he can deal with it, and maybe like her a bit more for not giving it up, too easy!! I don't mind taking some time, so she feels comfortable, safe, and that it isn't just a one night thing.

[Anime74969]

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[hsshannah96]

@SomeGuy37 that’s good to know cause I had told this guy and made it extremely clear no sex so he began dry humping me and went on for 30 minutes. He did it by choice like I never asked him to. it was so weird. like I thought they get so frustrated doing that Maybe he liked me originally more than I thought

[hsshannah96]

I knew this guy was probably just gonna try and use me for sex so I legit did dry hump with him for 30 min (some of it was his knee in between) and then had to leave for work. Needless to say he didn’t speak to me that day. 🤣

[bDizzie]

It's better than NOT dry humping!

[Rocco-K]

Its like trying to eat your food with a plastic wrapper on.

[abw121290]

I enjoy it, but I could imagine it would be frustrating if I knew that is as far as it was going to go.

[hsshannah96]

Don’t initiate that then if a girl has told you no sex already. That’s where it’s frustrating is when y'all initiate it and we never even brought that up or anything

[verylovelyguy]

That’s basically what lap dances for me are at the strip club. I pay her to dry hump me until I cum. It feels good

[Germanleon]

Its nice

[Anonymous]

I don't like it at all. There is no mental or emotional pleasure at all. And very little physical pleasure. Does no good to me.