I want to find a good man.. around my age. In his late 40s or 50s. But every guy I talk to will bring up sex. It just makes me think he just wants to get laid. I live in a small town and most of the men I work with are married. Also I dont want to date anyone I work with. So I have to resort to online. I will start talking to a guy and he seems really nice. Then he has to bring up sex and let me know how good he is. Even if I divert from the subject of sex... he gets back on the subject. I want a long term relationship... not a boot call. Men in their 40s and 50s are usually divorced. And are all trying to prove something.