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Personally I would want to HEAR them, however weird they are. I'm just kinda fascinated with people's secrets and desires. Doesn't mean I will want to do them but still love to hear them. Just talking about it and him opening up to me in that could turn me on. The only exception being if he's fantasies involved other men. I would just say "hey I've never told anyone... etc.. is that weird?" I don't know there are many ways you can start talking about it... but I would try to make it clear that its a discussion, sharing your thoughts and not a request of any kind. If she's open to any of it she'll let you know.
bring them up outside the bedroom first. casually mention them in an a way that will allow you a humorous back door. if they involve violence or if you think they are to far out, try and alt. sex site that would have others interested in same thing.I think the best way to approach it might be asking her if she has any fantasies she would be interested in. ask her is a way that will make her comfortable telling you, not in any way that would make her feel weird. careful what you ask for though.
Just simply talk to her up front and make it clear that you aren't going to pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to do but really want to share your fantasy with her. Then you will get an idea about whether she might be open to the idea without there being any pressure on her to do it if it's not something she is comfortable with. In some cases just talking about it helps.
I'd buy her her favorite bottle of wine or liquor first , people are more agreeable when they are having happy hour. And no I don't mean it in a rapey way
Just tell her have you ever seen p*rn (tell her the weird thing) ? When she says no. Then you show her and see her reaction.
I'm kinda tried that but they usually just stop taking to me
Lol well then you're screwed
Shame we have no idea what they are?
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