Ever had to use lube before having sex with a girl cuz she wasn't wet enough?

After sleeping togehter yesterday, my bf was still playing with me. He made a comment that he loves how wet i get, that its a huge compliment taht i get wet enough just because of him. and that w/some girls they need to use lube cause they dont get wet enough on their own. i asked him if he's ever had to do that in the past with a girl, and im only the 2nd girl he's slept with so he kind of sidestepped the question. is it common for a guy to have to use lube/oil because their girl doesn't get wet enough on her own?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Normally, I have no trouble getting a girl plenty wet via foreplay, but twice I've had girlfriends who had to take medications that had a side effect of vaginal dryness, and artificial lube was needed. In both cases, the girls were really self-conscious about it at first, but we both knew it was the meds, and in both cases, once she was done with them, things went back to normal: full waterfall!

    But even without meds, a few women simply don't get wet enough to have sex comfortably, and a few more have trouble STAYING wet through a medium-to-long sex session (i. e., anything over about 10 minutes), no matter how wet they were at first. That's mostly just a genetic issue, but I'm sure it can be a mental/emotional issue in some cases (i. e., an abusive past, etc.).

    I think for young women, though, if she's not getting wet, the MOST likely reason is because she either lacks an emotional connection with the guy (he didn't build any trust or connection with her), or he's rushing through, or skipping entirely, the foreplay.

  • Dont be offended lube is a very common thing amongst partners. Look at ky they make lube that help stimulate to make sex more exciting. If ur feeling self conscious about it beat him to the punch and break out one of those. Make a night out of it they have every flavor dont just use it for sex use it for foreplay too. U will blow his mind.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It depends on the girl, but its perfectly normal either way we are all different, personally i almost always use lube before sex because its more pleasureable for me at the time and i am a lot less likely to be sore afterwards

  • If im not wet then instead of using lube, he needs to do what it takes to get this river flowing. instead of wasting money on ky jelly, use that tongue lol

  • That's completely normal and common. Make sure he knows that.

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  • Often. It is not a reflection on your desirability as a woman that you do not flood vaginal mucus at the drop of a hat.

  • I only used lube the first few times having sex with my ex when we first started having sex because she was a virgin, and for anul

  • Yes, my gf gets very wet, but she is also very tight, so if we go for prolonged periods of time lube is necessary. In the past, I used lube with most of the girls that I've been with.