Why can my boyfriend only cum when we're in missionary?

My boyfriend can only cum when we're in the missionary position. We'll have sex in other positions like doggy, but he says he has to go back to missionary to finish. I don't understand why?
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  • Only he can give you the actual reason, but I can give you some likely possibilities.

    - that's the most comfortable position for him, which allows him to relax enough to cum.
    - that position turns him on the most - he can look into your eyes/face, or down at your body.
    - he can move/thrust the best in that position (for some guys, positions like, say, doggy style, are more difficult to thrust and stay balanced, and positions like cowgirl can mean the girl can't thrust fast enough for him).
    - the angle of your vagina while you are in that position just feels the best for him.

    Again, it might be something else (ask him), but it's probably one or more of the above reasons.

  • He will probably get over that eventually, but in the meantime, keep doing whatever feels good for you. Then you can finish in what does it for him. Actually this works great because you do not have to worry about him finishing first and not being able to finish you.

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  • It seems that missionary is the only position that stimulates him enough to come. It also depends on how experienced he is. How old is he?

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  • My guess is it's a psychological thing but who knows.

  • Is this problematic for you? More than likely it's a psychological thing for him.