Can guys separate themselves enough to have sex... and it not mean anything?

I have a friend who's fiance had sex with the stripper at his bachelor party. He told her every guy does it and it doesn't mean anything. Can guys really do this?
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  • Most guys can, yes, which is the opposite of women, because most women can't. This has ALWAYS been an area of major confusion among the sexes, because so many women can't understand how men CAN do this, and so many men can't understand how women CAN'T.

    Example: guys love it when girls send them nude pics, even some random girl. But most girls hate getting a dick pic. Why? Because most women only get excited if they have an EMOTIONAL CONNECTION with the guy - any other dick pic means nothing to them. Guys aren't like that - we get a sexual thrill from any attractive woman, and we don't need an emotional connection to have it. We (at least, most of us) can separate sex from love/emotions. It may not always be easy to do that if that relationship is sustained, but for a one-night-stand? Most guys can do that with no problem.

    Now, it's absolutely NOT true that "every guy" has sex with a stripper at his bachelor party. In fact, it's the exception, and relatively rare. It's much more common to get some boobies in the face, or to squeeze them a little, and a few get a BJ. Not many get laid.

    But that's a separate issue. When it comes to being able to separate sex and emotions, most guys absolutely CAN.

  • First of all, I'm joining others in calling bullshit on your friend's fiance's excuse. She should be justifiably angry at him.

    As for your question, yes. Not only yes, but it's actually closer to the default experience. It is more rare that we connect with someone in a way that sex means anything more than the physical sensations that come with it.

    Sex "meaning something" is the exception.

    I think it only happens when there is a very strong bond between two people, and only occasionally - not all the time - then.

    We just aren't made the same way as women.

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  • From someone who lives with a bunch of boys... yes, they can.

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  • the question is not if he can or not, its more if its right ot wrong. It depends on the type of man we are talking about. For some guys, sex is not a big deal... and if he had sex with another woman before getting married, i can bet that it will continue. In my opinion, when a man is getting married, its because he wants to spend the rest of his days only seeing, supporting, living, loving, and HAVING SEX only with that speciall person till he dies. Its the same case with women. So honestly... if the guys case is that he fucked the stripper... tell your friend to watch out... she might be getting married with the wrong guy.

  • "Every guy does it" is just plain bullshit. The great majority wouldn't.

    I can see that he could do it and it wouldn't mean much to him. He could do it without any emotional attatchment

  • Some can. Not all, though.

  • Yes I can easily, and willingly.

  • if you are engaged you should not be engaging in sexual acts with none other but your fiance. bachelor parties aren't an excuse.

  • Probably a yes, but not if she wasn't attractive.

    • Correction, not every guy does it. First not ever guy gets married. And not every guy would do what that guy did either.

  • yeah its easy

  • Many can. Not me.