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The right time is whenever you feel you are with the right person. No one needs to rush you. You aren't going to be a 40 year old virgin because you're 17 and a virgin. My boyfriend is turning 17 in June and I'm turning 16 in April and we are both virgins. Join the club.
Whenever you feel ready. Don't listen to society with all these rules about how you should only lose your virginity to 'mr. right' (who doesn't actually exist) or that it's embarrassing to be one past a certain age. When it comes down to it, whether you're a virgin or not is your business only so anyone who cares or makes you feel bad about your experience isn't worth your time anyhow.
One thing for sure, age is definitely not a factor. Some girls wait until they find that someone to share the most special moment in their lives. Some girls just try to have sex as soon as possible just for the sake of it. But most girls, the normal girls, have sex only when they feel the right moment, the spark of inimacy, comfort, and assurance.Don't give in to the typical peer pressure. Don't force yourself just because other people say so. Do it when it's right, and you won't feel ashamed or be guilty about it.
I lost mine when I was 20, my friends said the exact same. They often referred to the movie a 40 year old virgin. Anyways they are just joking so don't take them too seriously. You need to do it when you are ready and with someone you want to do it with.
im the same way. but i know im not ready. its all really up too you. easiest way is what i was told to do... wait till you have a girl you truly love then let her make the first move. i know its hard sometimes (pun not intended happy accident (pun intended)) but trust me i have had a few girls try to use me and even talking dirty made me feel horrible about myself. all it is is a waiting game to find the right girl.
There isn't a right time ever its not like you say oh I turn 18 tmrw and I have to lose my virginity. It happens when you are ready and you find someone that you really want to share that moment with. This is why you shouldn't share personal stuff like that with your friends. I knw I don't and when they ask me I say I like to keep it on the down low I just say im a secretive person.
The right time is when YOU feel you're ready. Others are NOT ALLOWED to pressure you into doing what you're not ready for. You're only 17. I know people who are in their 20's and are virgins because they don't feel it's the right time yet. If you feel you are ready, make sure it's with a special girl (or guy) that you REALLY care about, and not some random hooker or slut at your school.
The right time is when you find the right guy. No point in rushing it, cause you might end up regretting it. I'm 19, still a virgin. I'm waiting for a guy I can actually see a future with before he takes away something I can never get back
I think you meant girl. lol
lol, thanks for the correction. girl* :P
i lost my virginity at schoolies cause we were both drunk and just decided to have sex, just dont be pressured into it if you're not feeling it, or you're not ready for it. dont listen to your friends, its your own personal life, it doesn't concern them one bit. look after yourself
I wish most men wouldn't be in such a rush to pop their cherries.It's not that big of a deal...Screw what your friends say.
You're 17. Calm the hell down. There is no "right time." It's when you're ready. Take your time, enjoy life. Love isn't all about sex.
It's when you're ready for it.
you're not even halfway there bro chill out.
After getting married.
its your choice n ur body, ur friends are immature
15-16ish. Or when you start getting boner a lot
You'll know when its the right time.
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